Don't take relationship advice from others!!!

  • Yazdan
    17 years ago

    Hey, as the title says, don't do it!! Think about it, if your loved one starts loving you again because you've done something that someone else told you to do, who would they be falling in love with? You, or the person who gave you that advice. The best person to go to for advice is yourself!! If things aren't working out then i suppose there are some incompatability issues. Don't worry about it, you'll find the right person eventualy. Don't rush into relationships, instead take the time to get to know the person before getting all intimate and such. That step right there can save you from a broken heart later. BUT DON"T BE WHO YOU AREN"T!! If you can't fix the relationship by doing what you'd normaly do, its not a relationship worth having!! Do you want to lie to your partner all the time?! Have them beleive you are amazing when all you are doing is stealing someone elses charisma!?! What happens when that person decides to stop giving advice? Your back at square one. Hope this helps. If i upset anyone with this, i'm sorry.

  • OMGdanielle
    17 years ago

    That right there was relationship advice. now, if i follow it, is someone going to be falling in love with you rather than i?

  • silvershoes
    17 years ago

    Advice can be reassurance of the right choice, the right answer. Advice does not have to be taken, look up the definition. You're nuts.

  • OMGdanielle
    17 years ago

    You're nuts.

    ^AHAHA THAT MADE ME LAUGH OUT LOUD.

    lolllll.

  • ChaoticallyMe
    17 years ago

    Every one should all just mind their own business and craw into their solitary holes. Don't take advice from other people...in fact don't even listen when your bf or gf tells that there's something you need to change because that would mean you're not being who you are! Improvements? what is that? NONSENSE! You can all count on yourself to be just yourself. I'm sure you'll do just fine...

    :D haha

    I think you took your mom way too seriously when she told you not to talk to or take anything from strangers :P Lighten-up...it's a social world and we're social beings :) If a friend told me a move that would improve my sex-life greatly...I'd sure as heck-fire try it :P :O wouldn't my gf be having sex with my friend then..that $#%#...hahaha

  • Jaime
    17 years ago

    Disagree. But, you don't have to take advice if you don't want to.

  • OMGdanielle
    17 years ago

    Umm ok.
    my mom gave me relationship advice when me and my bf broke up, and now that were back together, does that mean he secretly wants to be with my mom?
    are you getting this?

  • Viola
    17 years ago

    I think people take advice and put it into their own terms..as in use it the way they want to.
    there is this quote that says:
    "the way I do one thing in life is the way I do everything in life"
    so i think people take other people' opinion and turn it into something they would normally do but just were too confused to have thought of because of all the hurt or whatever.
    i don't believe taking advice makes you a different person.