{How do u know if its love}

Alright so me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 3 months and i have NEVER felt like this for any other guy before..i mean he makes me feel so happy, so secure, so safe...i love everything about him and he is all i ever think about...so my question is...
*what is the one thing that you would ask someone to see if they loved you or someone else....?

If you need to ask him...there's a problem.

If you can say that you love everything about him...you should already know what love is to you. Now is that returned from him to you?

Ask him if he would rather watch you sleep than watch a match of football haha...I did it and I was happy to no that Im more important than a game of football to a boy! lol

LOL you guys are funny but no i dont know if the feelings are returned because he doesnt fall like that...he was goin out with a girl for 8months and he didnt love her but i told him that felt like i was fallin for him and he said "Dont, cuz imma end up messin something up and i dont wanna hurt you...your the last person i wanna hurt!
And i told him that the only way he would hurt me is by cheatin on me n he said he would never do that to me so yea...do i tell him that i love him?Would you?

Love is hard to explain... it's just something you know...
Someone who is in love would do anything for the person they love, they put you in front of themselves.

&& this guy doesnt sound like he's ready to be in a relationship like that... if he isnt willing to fall for you back then there's nothing you can do to change his mind... make him open up first... cuz one of the worst feelings in the world is rejection... you may know you love him but don't give in to him that easy... show him love without letting him know you love him & he;ll turn around :)

Word of advice:
Don't believe someone that says they love you if they just say it... words mean nothing until proven true...

If a guy gets scared of you telling him "I love you" he wouldn't be worth the heart-ache that follows.

If you love him...you love him. It shouldn't be something you hide. The world's full of it...but there can never be enough love..share it :)

Haha..I'm repeating my style :P

Yea it seems like he is fallin for me cuz when something terrible happened where he wouldve normally broken up with his girl he said that he was thinkin about breakin up with me but for some reason he felt like he had to sleep on it...and he said "you wonder why i dont let girls get under my skin" and i was like...are you sayin you were fallin for me... and he was like " dont matter now..its like im starting over" Does that mean something?

You dun need to ask..if u feel secure..and feel loved..dat's enough.

jsut ask firmly to him..if he loves u dat deeply?..or is this luv jsut tym passing?

'Dont, cuz imma end up messin something up and i dont wanna hurt you...your the last person i wanna hurt!'
Even if he doesn't love you, ^that to me is saying that he at least cares. He does have feelings for you. So don't give up just yet. You have to be there for him. Make sure that he knows you really care about him. You will always be there. Etc. etc. When he knows that. He will open up to you. Probably some before then. Let him know how you feel. There is no reason to hide love. Though, I would make sure he is ready for a commited relationship before you get in any farthur. If not your going to get hurt worse.

Yeah I don't need to ask, she always calls always asking me to talk, if I have a problem she's there. She just wants to be with me, that and other things she does shows me she loves me not in words.

Alright i really appreciate your advice guys and im sorry to ask you another question but...
what do i do if i ask him how he feels about me or if i tell him how i feel and he says something like alright but i dont feel the same for you? I mean i dont want to look stupid when im tellin this wonderful man how i feel about him!

I don't think he would be that wonderful if he doesn't feel any love for you. If he really doesn't...why the heck is he with you? At most, maybe he just doesn't love you as much as you love him but things change.

Tell him that you love him if you do, it can't hurt. Be open with your feelings, that's what love is all about. If he does not reciprocate such intense feelings, don't push him. Never, ever, ever pressure someone to love you or even say, "I love you." He will say it when and if he feels that it is true.

Alright so he told me that he wanted to just look at me today and i said something to make him think that he was fallin for me but i didnt tell him that he was fallin for me but he was like "naw, its not happening dont even worry about it" n he just said that wasnt fallin for me and everything so what does this mean?

That means that he is one confused and confusing sucka.

People have many definitions of love and i belive that time will tell whether you're in love with that someone special or not. the word "love" has lost its meaning some people take it for granteed and dont realise the meaning and understanding of it. to me love is something you feel and it doesnt just pop out of no where it takes time and dedication to find and make that love grow. u begin with feeling and likes and slowly as u get to kno that person better these feeling grow into something bigger. and than when ur 100% comfortable around that person and love everything about him even his imperfections that is when real and lusting love comes into the picture. if you're not sure about these feelings then i'd wait to say the most important word in the relationship "I LOVE YOU".

Again, Nat is right.