Not that easy to listen to yur heart...

Hey everyone..
everyone and myself say to people when they need a little help and guidence when they have problems with bf's and gf's etc..
thing is we all know he answer but we just need someone else to tell us so we know we were right..
but we all say follow your heart not your head.. or follow your heart and listen to that voice inside of you..

thing is im feeling bit lost and thing is ive got a great bf and tht but still feeling something is missing and im starting to look at the bad boys again grrr... and letting myself be really attracted to lads who was like my ex and my ex hurt me when we were together ....when ive got a decent lad beside me who been with 7 months.... why why why why why why?????

so ive said to myself what ive said to others??? WHAT DO YOU TRUELY WANT..
FOLLOW YOUR HEART AND LISTEN TO THAT LITTLE VOICE..
ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh what so confused.. think ill hold back next time before i say that to someone because it aint that easy...

do you agree???
let me know what you think??

xhx

You know.. there's nothing wrong.. you just lost that [spark]... happens a lot.

Your right. It is heard to listen to that little voice in your head and follow your heart. Especially if it's pulling you away from a relationship that you really want to have. You don't want to lose it obviously. Though, if you still feel like something is missing. Maybe he's not the right one for you. Try taking a break to get this together and figure out what it is you want. If he really cares... he will wait a few days... few weeks... months. How ever long it takes. Just try to figure out what it is you want first. Then if he isn't part of that, end things before they get any more involved. It will only hurt the both of you worse.

Yeah just go with him for a little longer see what happens. Nothing there still? Just move on, that bad guys you liked go with them you have time just do what you want.

^ Very nice, and hey it's true I said the same thing in another post.

Bob is always right, he is the Wisdom Fountain.

Ppl do say tht but yeah in the real world its stupid but ppl seem to want to hear it...
its good to hear n see so many different views on it..

I guess because usually the heart know best because if you didn't you'll never know. But it is hard to follow your heart sometimes because of the fear of not knowing what's ahead.

It's a troubling thing.