is it rape if a female did it?

  • silent submission
    20 years ago

    im a chick and i was just wanting to know if its rape if a girl did it, i really confused and think im being ridiculous coz it seems impossible. im confused so please help!!

  • .x.PorteR.x.
    20 years ago

    Rape is defined as having sex with someone against their will - no matter what gender or age. So yes, if the female does it, it is definitely still rape.

  • Luvmeluvr
    20 years ago

    See, but the REAL question is this: If you are ABLE to rape a man, doesn't that mean he wants to? I mean, you can't rape a guy who isn't hard, now can ya?

  • David
    20 years ago

    Even if the victim is aroused during the rape, it is still rape. Especially if the victim is a child and the sex actually "feels" good to a certein extent. Sometimes we can't control how the body reacts during shock.
    Some rapist actually try to use this as a defense in court.. but the judges know better. Thank God.

  • t i f f a n y ♥
    20 years ago

    yes it is rape even if a girl does it, and why wouldn't it be? and even though your turned on by someone that doesn't neccessarily mean that you want to have sex with them.

  • Matthewsbaby
    20 years ago

    Yes. No matter what if your male or female.. if you do it against their will its rape.. like blueribbon said.

    Is there a certain reason u asked this? im j/w.

  • Jacki
    20 years ago

    Yes, men can be raped, and while women are more likely to be raped than men, 1 in 10 men will be raped during their lifetimes. When a man is raped, it is usually by another man, but sometimes it is by a woman. A woman can rape a man by forcing herself onto him -- by forcing the man into her. If a man is stimulated, he will get an erection. Some people believe that if a man gets an erection, he must want the sex. This is not true. Even if a man doesn't want it -- even if he's fighting it -- a woman can still give him an erection against his will -- even make him ejaculate. Women who have been raped sometimes actually orgasm during their rape. They feel horrible -- like their bodies have betrayed them. The same is true of men. A man who is raped may still come. If someone is physically stimulating him, his body can betray him, too. We men just don't like to talk about or think about the possibility that we might be raped. It threatens our manhood."

  • Jacki
    20 years ago

    http://www.pottymouth.org/wetspot/wetspot084.html

    http://www.backlash.com/book/rape2.html

    gives more of what i had just said. Also a man get an erection due to anxiety. And well if a women is forcing herself on him well that qualfies as anxiety.

  • Jacki
    20 years ago

    # Sexual assault is never the victim's fault.

    # Women and men may want sex sometimes and may not want sex sometimes.

    # Women and men get to change their minds and say "no" to sex, even if they've consented to some kind of sex play.

    # Women and men can be violent or aggressive.

    # Women and men can be pressured, coerced, or forced into sex, especially when alcohol or other drugs are used.

    as i've said men can be reaped and they will be hard

  • Jacki
    20 years ago

    It is NY also

  • Fighter (Ariane L.)
    20 years ago

    yes.