I really like him.. but don't know how to tell him.

  • TheWorldFellNUWerentThere
    17 years ago

    Okay.

    I really like this guy,
    but i just don't really know how to tell him.

    There's actually two, but I'm going more for the 1st guy because I mean I've hung out with him enough to know that I really like him.

    I mean he's not forcing anything from me,
    he doesn't talk about sex [which adds a boost for me],
    the stuff that we talk about is like our lifestyle, friends, stories of stupid crap we done with our friends & family and we talk about music too. Stuff that gets you to really know about someone.

    He's a couple years older then me & what I meant by a couple I meant like 2 or 3 years older then me.

    He's a really sweet guy and he makes me laugh so hard half the time that we hang out.

    Yes I admit that we met over the internet and a few days later we met in person but he was everything that he was telling me on myspace.

    Not to mention that he's a kid at heart but knows when to be mature. Last month was the last time we hung out and he told me he was going to try to get a job and I couldn't even begin to explain how damn happy I was.
    He's not like those other people, I can tell it in the way he talks and how he puts himself as [dresses and that]. He's just different.

    The only thing is I don't know how to tell him that I really like him.

  • LuvLyLynn
    17 years ago

    Hehehe...i agree too just tell him... or call or write a poem...i usually give out hints...

  • TheWorldFellNUWerentThere
    17 years ago

    The hardest part of the whole deal is that I'm afraid he's dating someone that he never told me about or just not accept the fact that I like him.

  • Alex Marlatt
    17 years ago

    Yea just tell him everything you told us. Write a poem if you're shy. Just go for it. It's not often that you find people you're completely compatable with that seem to be everything you're looking for.

  • LuvLyLynn
    17 years ago

    Well you never know until you try... but as the guy said above me you wouldn't want to wonder "what if, what if"...you should take a chance... if he does feel the same way for you, then you two have set it off...but if it doesn't there are other guys out there that are better...you just have to wait and be patient... but i hope he does feel the same way for you if you guys get along so much...but it's better to take a risk than to not have taken a risk at all...hope this helps... ^_^

  • BrokenREALiTy
    17 years ago

    You can't like two people at the same time . But whatever, you'll just learn as you get older . Just tell the guy straight up . They're all imbeciles and can't take a hint . If he doesn't like you, it's his deal . You just gotta accept it . You're the one that wants to tell him, so you have to take that risk .

    ..__MiNDYY

  • TheWorldFellNUWerentThere
    17 years ago

    Well I just talked to him today.

    He has no girlfriend.

    He was going to call me later tonight and I was going to ask him if he liked me in any sort of way.

    =] I hope he does

  • ChaoticallyMe
    17 years ago

    ^
    ^Ms. Mindy, it is possible to like more than one person at the same time...or is that a guy thing? XP NOT! It's not only possible, it's normal for someone to like more than just one. What's different is the degree of fondness. I like you (partially because you're adorable, amusing, and astute)...but I also like other people too :P

    Oh and to the person wishing to confess of affection...good luck.
    Not all guys are imbeciles (thank goodness :P) so some of us can take hints if you don't want to go too direct. Although...sometimes we would appreciate girls/ladies taking the active role in "asking out" :)

  • deathdealer
    17 years ago

    If you really like the guy,doesn't he get a hint?

    i mean if you like him, you'll act differently around him so he's bound to notice, either that or he is an imbecile. As for the two guys thing, it wont happen, they will not pay attention and you'll lose out on a chance >.>