Bestmate..so why dont i like her?

  • JodiieBaybeh
    17 years ago

    Hiya ..well this isnt really a big problem..but ive knwon a girl for little over a year now ..and were close..i tell her alotttt... and she makes me laugh and is always there for me..but she annoys me so much ...after like ..an hr or so i get bored of her and want to go home ..but were bestmates...whats goin on ?!?!

  • Spirit
    17 years ago

    It's the same with me and mos of my friends. We love being around eacher and we laugh and joke and listen to eacher's stuff. But you put us together for an hour or so and we'd eat eachother's brains out. (figure of speech). Any way the point is that when you get close to people around you, and you get attached eventuelly the nit picky things will start to get on your nerve. Don't worry once you both get over it you'll be best friends again.

  • JodiieBaybeh
    17 years ago

    Thanks i thought it was just me and it made me feel ba like i was being selfish or something...thanks! xx

  • Spirit
    17 years ago

    There is nothing wrong with thinking about yourself every once and a while. Trust me i know. It does not make you selfish it just means that of all the people that are important to you, you are one of them besides if youfeel bad about putting yourself before others everyonce and a while then i must feel terribly horrible.

    Ps feel better.

  • BrokenREALiTy
    17 years ago

    Haha that's normal . don't worry about it . my best girl mate, we've known each other since we were three . we know basically everything about each other . finish each others sentences -- know what we're gonna do next and what we're gonna say next . but she gets on my nerves sometimes and I end up putting her on blast . it's normal . don't freak about it . best mates can handle things like this ;D I think I've nearly beat her arse a couple times cuhs' she pissed me off so bad . It's not selfish . Best believe that . I mean, hell, our conversations every day go from hi to "SOD YOU, YOU -BEEPiN'- SLAG" (:

    ..__MiNDYY

  • JodiieBaybeh
    17 years ago

    Lol thank god !..thought i was the onlii one haha