I'm deeply broken and i dont know the way to return back to my l

I was in love with a guy he was my first love he left me and i was completely broken i lost my trust in every one, after him i know a guy who adores me but i said that i dont want to fall in love again i dont want to break my heart again am really dont know what to do i feel like am a girl with no heart i forgot how to love , i'm really so depressed from life and i want a way to return back to my normal life

Wow, that's really sad, Im sorry that happened to you. But a wise person once told me.. That sometimes it's easier to turn away and not look back just keep moving foreward.
I know your afraid to love again, but give it a try, only you can do it for yourself you just have to know that your better then that, that the guy you loved wasn't worth it. Try giving this new guy a chance, just get to know him first. Feel comfortable with him before making a move or starting a relationchip. Remember before love came friendship, and admiration. you just got to find that again.

Well I hope that helped, if not Im sorry, Im probably not one to be giving advice when I can hardly control my own life and problems -_- but I gave it a try.
Good luck, and just for the support your old life will come back to you, just wait and take it a it at a time.
~Akira

"To love is to live without limits."

There is no way to "return back to your normal life." When significant events happen, it is meant to strengthen you. I lost my first love as well.. And it -is- hard and it hurts like nothing else.. Believe me, I know how it feels..

I went through the same thing as you.. I found A great guy who I was afraid to fall in love with.. But one cannot control their heart... And to gain in life, you must take chances...

If you want to return your life to some semblance of normalcy.. Pick up the pieces and move on with your life. Never dwell in the past, it is not good for you.. Look at your present, look at what you have, and look for the future and what you could have.. and never, ever let things get in the way of you being happy or taking the chance to be happy.

Just ask urself would you rather never love again because you are scared of getting hurt or would you rather take a chance and find a guy who would kill to have you in his arms and die rather than hurt you? you may have to go through a few breakups but there is a guy out there for you! and you have got to go out and let him come 2 u!and let it cross ur mind everyonce in a while love is worth the pain of heartbreak