Name one guy that ant the same

In these last few months I've dated so many guys! I'm ready to have a long relationship! It just seems that i believe everything every guy tells me! but then I realize that it was all just a lie to get between my legs! I don't want to think every guy is the same but I can't help it! I don't trust no guy! I want to believe that there is one guy not the same and that he will be with me but it just seems so impossible

My man James isn't like all other guys..

But here's what you do..
1. STOP spreading your legs..or a least wait untill you've been together at least a month or two
2. keep your guard up..don't believe everything they say untill you know what they are really like..It's easyer to get to know a guy then start dating..

Perhaps these guys are leaving you because you're to easy.. no offense but a girl that is quick to jump in the bed with everyguy she dates gets a well deserved bad reputation...

But seriously, this wouldn't effect you so much if you would just hold out on having sex...

Jeff!

Do I get a ribbon?

You need to test people you are dating.

For example, agree to meet a nice boy or girl in a cafe and get one of your friends to knock a drink over them accidently...how do they react?

do their eyes flash red for a moment? Or do they laugh and help to clean up?

Or just say you are part of the love waits crew and see if they stick around.

^ Are you serious? I pity your ignorance. This once, I really do.

He's claiming that we're all just looking for sex. That's completely untrue, unless I don't factor into the equation. Sex is not one of my priorities...am I that offbeat? Sure, I have sex with my boyfriend, but if he had offered himself up to me in the first few months, I would have shot him down. Sex is a bonus, not a necessity, and I'm certainly not in denial.

Basically, I feel like he is placing way too much value on sex.

Maybe we all want sex, but scratch the "to a certain degree" and add in "at certain times, with certain people."

Blahh, ok. My mind is scrambled. Here:

To me, what William wrote was stating that all people want sex at all times with just about anyone, but we're in denial. We would have sex with someone attractive on the spot, if what we wanted was what we did. But...I disagree. I would never even WANT sex with someone until I have gotten to know them and we are in a committed relationship. I can't be the only one with these wants, right? :\

Alright, I understand. But if I was in that position, I wouldn't even WANT to have sex with that person until they WANTED to have sex with me. I'd feel ashamed even thinking about having sex with her after what had been done to her--sex in the worst way possible--rape. That's just me!

And you're right about that, yes, our bodies are built for sex...among a crap load of other things.

I'm full of surprises.

"but then I realize that it was all just a lie to get between my legs!" does that mean that you just open up for all the boys you date?, which seem to be quit a few,if I read correctly
seriously, young girls like you, 16 years and all you do is screwing around , trowing your legs open to everyone willing to stick something in ,it's a disgrace
and afterwards -of course- "they' where taking advantadge of poor little you
young people like you make me sick , you're degenerating society , people who live like that are just a waste of space

Okay, you up there^

That was out of line, way out of line. I really don't want to hear anything close to that insulting again. I'm 15. I don't sleep around. Would it matter if I did?
Who are you to point fingers? What, are you supposed to be perfect, eh? Um, sure.

As if.

And, Sherry, you just rocked my world in a very good way. You're awesome.

=]

Um idk what to say

Okay I am going to throw in the hypothetical question that what if something happened to your partner to alter them from ever being able to have sex again. Are you able to deal with only an intellectual and emotional relationship rather than the added physical. It is my belief that the sex should only come after you have an established relationship based on many other things than sex. I would much prefer to grow old with my partner and still have intellectual conversations, sure the physical part is an asset but do not base immaturity of the guys you have met so far and the naivety of giving up the one thing you think holds them. It really goes deeper than sex. Give me an intellectual rather than a Don Juan anyday.

I didn't say anything about being perfect ,
I gave my opinion on the first post
It wasn't even insulting or rude . It's an unfortunate truth , and no ,It doesn't go for all girls, some girls' behaviour just asks for a comment like mine ,
:)

Sherry Sherry Sherry...

Keep your legs closed" words sung by Bob himself our first poster...And being that he posted first and made his views as a morally standing person, many other "men" replied the same...

I find that funny..

And you'd know by now that we live in a patriarchal society where women should be seen as a Madonna and the whore of Babylon....

Bob the mod.

Sherry, calling it disgraceful is not an insult, it's just a truth, some people just cross the line, men as well as girls
maybe young girls think to soon that they are grown up , and "over-behave" to look so women like , so much that it's annoyingly arrogant and becomes sickening to see , maybe I am to old fashioned .
a 16 year old is a child . what's the point of showing of everything they have , jumping from boyfriend to boyfriend , if you behave like that , how - as in a previous post stated - can they be taken serious ?

Sherry, again. You make me smile.

The dude above her...
Yeah, hey. You don't get to decide what we wear. No way, no how. And ALL young women[even in the media] are not referred to in that way... In fact, I can't even think of any who ARE referred to in that way. I mean, yeah, there are some pretty trampy outfits out there, but then again, who's to dictate?
Anyway, that isn't at all what this thread was about.
The original poster was not looking for fashion advice.
Please.

Sherry, again. You make me smile.

The dude above her...
Yeah, hey. You don't get to decide what we wear. No way, no how. And ALL young women[even in the media] are not referred to in that way... In fact, I can't even think of any who ARE referred to in that way. I mean, yeah, there are some pretty trampy outfits out there, but then again, who's to dictate?
Anyway, that isn't at all what this thread was about.
The original poster was not looking for fashion advice.
Please.

"Many young women live in world of emotional desolation in which any kind of attention, sexual or otherwise, is a need as compelling as survival itself."

I lived in a world of emotional desolation for to many years
that's by far no excuse

as for the term "whore" except from women who do it for money, the first poster on this tread is probably a fine example ,
but as a get more and more annoyed by people who try to gloze over all that these sickening young people do and say ,I'll make this my last post here before I go insult someone, :)

This thread was inappropriate to begin with

I agree with Sherry, only I am devoid of the whole "radical" feminist ideal...

I think what you said OceanSoul was truly inappropriate in that you called a girl who questioned why "men" are always sex-crazed manipulators...And what you said by far would be seen as sexist.

I'm sorry but for a 28 year old man, you should know better...

Well, this is becoming a completely hopeless discussion
clearly you want behaviour like that to be tolerated.
maybe my personal opinion sounds to hard for you,

"for a 28 year old man, you should know better"
this is how I've seen teenage girls AND boys evolve, I'm not being sexist in any way , the tread itself was by a girl so logically I answered to that ,and gave my opinion on girls

.......I do think before I type,

"Woman are in so much more in control of who they are and what they want, sex is not as precious and sacred as it once was"

it's not about woman, it's about girls....children

and the first poster insinuated enough to form a view about her, if she didn't agree, she should have replied

Abby I think that is a brilliant compromise.

Kevin - I never got to try your "test" before I married my one... do you think I should go home tonight and throw my hot coffee on him and see how he reacts? If he jumps up and down over it - IM LEAVING THE SUCKER!!! :)

I think there are three things that apply here:

1. Girls can be over easy if they want to be
2. Boys can be bastards if they want to be
3. Dont be surprised when like attracts like.

PS... I want a purple hat too.

Nah Mo it only works on the first few dates, before the shields come up, you know? You have a lovely smile on your face so your man can't be all bad.

Abby's solution is rather fetching, if i was Hannibal lecter.

I'd like to sing a song I learned in Primary school [thats 5 to 12 years you yanks]...it was in my startling sex education lessons.

"My bodies nobodies body but mine, to swing in the air and feel so divine. My bodies nobodies body but mine...so MIND YOUR OWN FECKING BUSINESS!"

I expanded the ending a little.

Bottom line, all this talk of loose girls and asshole men is getting me down, why can't we all be these things, together in a sexless genderless way? Brothers, sisters I beseech thee!!

I mean I am a manwhore, and Abby ain't exactly a stranger to beating the crap out of guys and abusing them afterwards...so where's the line eh?

Its MTV i tell ya. closed minded fools. the age that girls are having sex these days is retarted.

dont you know... any self respecting guy would not find it attractive if you have a million sex partners.

no one wants the hiv.
D:

I can't find the quote, but I'm going to assume they meant "Freud."

Riiight... so now its a "rug" for people to walk on? I cant imagine how fetching that would be...

"Hi. My name's Mo and I've had 100 dirty big klodhomping feet walk over my rug... wanna tango?"

Sooooo attractive.

So you're going more for the argument of "practice makes perfect"?

Ok, if you could bring a rug into this, Im going to bring Economics into it... what about the supply and demand curve? The more you wish to supply - the cheaper the commodity becomes?

:)

Yes it was definitely pairs... 100 pairs... of men... at a time. :)

Now listen here - if Kevin can get a purple hat then why cant I? I can glue two tennis balls underneath it when I wear it? Hmm??

I try not to have to inflate things... but its hard sometimes...

With so many pricks in this world popping people's bubbles, you have to have SOMEONE to inflate things again. :)

Neema, you are a GUY? Holy crap. I'm in shock.

I think everyone should stop telling her to keep he rlegs closed. she never said she gave it to them. she only said thats the reason they were with her. how do you know she didnt dump them when she realized thats all they had been there for.
and not all guys are the same. my boyfriend is amazing. hes sweet and caring and i really like him. i love spending time with him. and hes not getting in my pants anytime soon and he knows that. were still really happy together. i think you should just tell your next b/f that your not going to just give it up. like right from teh beginning. maybe not so direct haha but make it known to him your not going to jump in bed. then maybe you'll find a realationship.

... I think this is a really old thread, and although it's pretty funny reading it with Neema's posts gone, I think maybe it's time for it to go away.