{Does he love me?}

~This is the post from before with me and my boyfriend Domonic is anybody knows about it~

Alright now i really think he is fallin for me but is scared get this:
I went out of town for 3 days and i seen him the day before i had to leave at some fireworks,ok
So then we talked everynight that i was down there till at least 4 in the morning and we were talkin and i was like "You know i didnt even wanna walk away from you on Saturday cuz i knew that in like 2 hours i would be missin the hell out of you" and he was like "2 hours" and i was like ok 3 and he was like i missed you 20mins after you walked away from me! And then he was talkin about how much he just wanted to hold me and stuff and then he asked me if i could see myself with him and i was like yea and i asked him the same and he said "yea, i actually can and thats something i could never honestly say to anybody else"
{***What does this mean, can someone please just tell me that he at least has strong feelings for me but he is just scared to admit to them i mean i really really feel like i love this boy but i dont want to tell him unless i know that he is starting to feel the same!***}

I really need help wit this guys...

With my boyfriend and I, we joked around before he actually said anything. He always told me that I had to love him because it's in the job description. I thought that it was cute. lol Tease him a little bit when the mood is right. Tell him that he has to love you because it's in the job description. If he says something like, I do love you, then you'll know. If he says something else, just play it off that. You know, you don't have to wait for him to say it. You could also say it first. Try something like this: "I love you. I know that's a lot to handle, but I felt that I needed to tell you how I feel. I understand if you don't feel that way yet. I'm not pressuring you to say it, I just wanted to tell you how I feel. Don't say it unless you mean it." Or something like that.
Hope it helped and best of luck! =]

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Hey,
well form what you have posted before and from what you have said now..i agree, that he probably does have strong feelings for you.
now there's always that thing about guys just saying things they don't perticularly mean..but that's just a small possibility
i think because he does like you more than he has any other girl (from what he says) he is kinda thrown off..and maybe confused or scared. it might be new for him to feel this way..he might be realizing he really likes you more than he originally thought he would. and yes, i suppose that would scare him.
i do suggest you tell him how you feel first. like the post above me says ^
maybe in a sort of jocking..not so serious way..and just see what his response is. if he says it back, then i guess you'll know...
i hope this helps in some way.
all the best!
--Viola

Thanks girls that did help me i mean i think im scared too and i just feel like i really do love him and i mean its gonna be 3 months in 5 days i mean do you think its too soon?

...I don't know...there isn't exactly a way for us to be sure that he's in love just based on what he says. You'd have to feel yourself. I've said those things to girls and only meant what's on face-value. It doesn't have to equal love for someone to miss another or want to hold another.

Yea i understand what you guys are saying do you think i should just straight up ask him if he loves me or not?

You could ask him. It will be 3 months for me the 26th and he has told me that he loved me, so you never know how soon is "too soon" Best of luck!! =]
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If the person saying it can back it up with certainty, there is no such thing as too soon. It would be "too soon" when the person hearing it doesn't feel the same no matter how long it's been.

I guess you should ask him..if you feel really strongly yourself (which i think you do)..and would really like to know..
i would think it's be best if you said it yourself..and see his response..then ask him about it.

but which ever is easier for you. :) good luck!

--Viola

OK so i have some more evidence that he might just be scared!
*so when we were first going out he said that i was pretty or whatever n i was like o im not beautiful and he was like naw you got to earn that..lol*
And you know how they say if a guy calls you hot then he wants to get in your pants, if he calls you pretty then he likes you but if he calls you beautiful then he loves you...?
Well last night he called me and right when i picked up the phone he was like "Hey beautiful" and i was just hey baby...blah blah blah now you guys have to realize that he has NEVER said that to me before!

Never ask a guy if he loves you we get creeped out well at least i do if you want to know if he likes you say i love you if he answers back then he loves you if he says umm umm ilke you he does but hes scared if he doesnt say anything it may be a possibilty

Ok, i understand what your saying, im just really scared guys!

About that whole beautiful thing- you are WAY over analyzing everything. Guys don't just call you beautiful when they love you, or pretty when they just like you, or whatever. They're not that smart! :P lol.

Just be patient. When he loves you, he will tell you.

U know monica...in my opinion, i think that sometimes men get used 2 a certain girl n feel like he doesn't want 2 let her go..but in the same time he's not sure if that bcoz he really luvs her or bcoz she's kinda supportive 2 him and caring and most of the times telling him things that he would like 2 hear..mayb he wants u close but he's having mixed feelings..i believe that when a guy REALLY REALLY luvs a girl he just go straight n say he luvs her there's no need 2 be scared especially if he knows her quite well and feels that she luvs him 2..believe me they FEEL a girls'luv...never think about telling him first ur feelings..i don't recommend that at all..n u know what..don't make ur self available all the time and makes him feel that if's not taking any steps u won't be there 4ever waiting and guessing and analyzing!!!..