Jealousy

What is it in us, that makes us jealous? Why is there a thought, that says a different person is more special to my lover than myself? Why.. I keep wondering that.. cause I've been feeling this way the last few days.
See, I have a very nice boyfriend and everything is just fine.. except.. I get jealous when he's too close with other girls. You see, he's been talking to a friend of mine on MSN and stuff.. and getting to know her even better than I know her. And then I feel like I'm not important enough, when I know I am. There's nothing I can do about this feeling.. it just sucks.. o_O Somebody know some ways to get over this jealousy thing? =/ cause I know he loves me.. and that I'm important for him.. and mean a lot too.. but it's just that I have this weird feeling sometimes that others are just a little more important..

It's natural to be jealous when you see your boyfriend talking to other girls. You should talk to him about it though, it makes things a lot easier. Plus if you trust him, then you should no that he wouldn't hurt you... if he really does care.

Aw..its normal 2 get jealous! u just have to TRUST him... yeah its hard i know...try looking at it from a different angle...like theyre just friends...hes urs....he loves u! remember that! :-]

Just remember that of all the girls he knows, and of all the girls he is friends with, he chose to date you. For some reason, you are the most important girl to him.

We all get jealous, but it really isn't necessary.

Well im more chill when it comes to my boyfriends. i mean...i trust them and i hate clinggy jelous guys. its such a turn off. a lot of people will pull that "its because i care about you" no. its cause youre too self concious to trust me. so no. lol.

Yeah.. I should trust him a little more... and I talked to him about it yesterday.. well.. talked.. I started crying, cause it was bothering my so much.. =S Just don't know where it came from, it's not like me to act this way.. x_X But then he said: "I love you more than I love anyone else, please just remember that =)"

It's a horrible feeling I know this, because I get jealous sometimes when my girlfriend talks to my bestfriend, even though they don't really talk about anything, I still get jealous too because she is the most important thing in my life... so it's natural to feel threatened

The best thing to do is to just do what he said.. and Remember That =).. He loves you more than anyone.

I know it is kinda a wierd way to look at this but it is kinda good to be jealous. That truely tells you how much you love him so it is kinda good even thought it basically sucks(!!!).

Jealousy and love aren't necessarily a pair. If you love someone, I would hope you trust and care for them enough to not be jealous.

I have a huge problem with jealousy and trust mostly bc guys have made me that way. my ex b/f said something sexual about another girl when he was mad and i literally went after her. it wasnt her fault and i realize that but its so frustrating. my b/f now would never cheat on me but i have trust issues bc of what happened to me.
anyway jealousy is normal as long as you dont take it to the extreme like i did... and its good to talk to him about it bc that really helps.

Jealousy is a disease. period.

I would just talk to him about it