What Should I Do?

  • sHaTtErEdMiStAkE
    17 years ago

    Okay when i was 13 i dated this sort of older guy who was 18 at the time. I swear we were in love, nothing could ever keep us apart. Until it was maybe 4 months after we started dating that his parents decided that they were moving and he didn't have a job or a car or anything so he had to go with them. I wanted to give him something special before he left so i had sex with him and he took my virginity. Afterwards we both agreed to break up and that whenever he could he would come back and we would get together again. Well when he did finally come back maybe like 2 years later he moved to a town that was maybe 20 or 30 minutes away and i didn't know that he had moved back but he called me several times and my dad never told me when he called. He said he had called me everyday for 2 weeks and (my dad always told him that i'd call him back) he never told me that Chris had called so Chris figured that i didn't love him anymore and moved on.
    Well he met a girl named Kendra (who i am now friends with) and they dated for 3 years and now have a 1 year old daughter together. They ended up breaking up and i found him on Myspace maybe 2 months ago. He was very different after him and kendra broke up she really hurt him well anyways i went to where he was staying at about a month ago and we talked and talked for hours about everything past and present. During one of our talks he just leaned over and kissed me. A very sweet kiss nothing too serious and then he kissed me again when i was getting ready to leave. We've talked on the phone a couple of times but it's been really hard to see one another with our jobs and stuff. But now i find out about 2 weeks ago he asked this girl out named Keaira who is younger than me and is 4 months pregnant with another persons baby.
    I guess what my question is is what was he thinking and what am i supposed to do. I really love him still after all these years and i don't know whether i should just wait for this thing to end or to just forget about him. (which will be hard because i haven't forgot about him in 5 years so why would i be able to now) I seriously believe that this whole relationship with her is meaningless and if it's not then he's just completely stupid. I don't know what i should do just please help me.

    Madison

  • ChaoticallyMe
    17 years ago

    I don't think you mean much to him (any more). He doesn't sound like a guy that considers his actions much (having sex with a 13 year old when he's 18...having a baby in a relationship that wasn't that strong...). Maybe you're just someone he can come back to when he's in need of company. He moves on quite readily each time.

  • Fruitloop XxProblem ChildxX
    17 years ago

    You see, i was gonna read this...then i changed my mind.

  • sHaTtErEdMiStAkE
    17 years ago

    Okay it's Madison again..i have a new question. Okay this same guy that i was talking about earlier in this post is now single again. Or so he says. I have been friends with his ex Kendra for about a month now and she'll confide in me with things and then out of the blue Chris will tell me that what she told me isn't true. I don't even have to mention what she tells me. It's like she tells me something and then goes and tells him what she told me or something. I'm so confused because i don't know who to believe or who is lying to me. I want to believe chris because i still love him but i don't want Kendra to be mad if i believe chris over her. I don't know who is telling me the truth anymore. Sometimes i feel like one is lying and the other is telling the truth and vice versa. What do you think i should do. Chris told me that he wants to get back together with me, but i don't know whether to believe him or not If it helps with your advice they have both lied to me before so any advice is welcome...Please help me again...

    Madison