I can't let go....

  • kida
    17 years ago

    About one and a half years ago i went out with this really great guy, we did everything together at his insistance, he walked me 2 and from school spent all day at my house till my mum made him go home and spent most weekends, he never pressured me for sex and my parents loved him! i thought everything was great we had been together for about 8 months but one day wen we were hanging out together wit a few of my m8s he found out da necklace i never took off was given to me by my ex bf who was my best friend at the time and was with us that day, he got really mad and hit me in front of all my m8s n i was so scared that i started goin psyco at him, he left and never talked 2 me again no matter how much i apologised. so now its been so long and i still cry over him, he still wont talk 2 me and worst of all my parents cant seem to get over it and let me moove on either its like no one i go out with can measure up and they refuse to accept my new bf's how am i supposed to let go of something i thought would last forwever when my parents can't, and, judging by the phone calls i get every week from his mum she cant either, he has mooved on he hates me and he is not coming back but my parents and his mum dont seem to have figured it out which is making me trying 2 moove on even harder.
    any advice?

  • Birgit
    17 years ago

    He got mad about a necklace T_T? And hit you because of it.. well.. obviously he's not that perfect for you. So tell your parents that.. tell him that he wasn't that special. Also tell them, that it's your choice, who you go out with. Once you've talked with your parents, maybe they'll understand why it's so hard for you to let him go. And maybe then things will get a little easier =]
    TC!

  • kida
    17 years ago

    Ok well tnx but i already tried tlkin 2 them, also could sum more ppl please give me some god damn advice?

  • beautyinainstant
    17 years ago

    Its time to move on...its been such a long time since yall broke up. For one a man should never hit a woman, no matter what...especially over a necklace. why would you want to get backwith him??he could just hit you again....and why wont ur parents let you move on?My parents would of killed him that day. Just try to date some really great guys and maybe your parents will see that he wasnt so wonderful after all.

  • BrokenREALiTy
    17 years ago

    Your parents and his mum aren't the people dating each other, okay ? It doesn't matter what they freaking think . Christ, they're adults . They're not the ones that just lost a boyfriend over a stupid arse reason like that . Get over him . It's time to move on . Your 'rents need to get get over it too . Guys aren't all the same or something . If it didn't work out, it didn't work out . Go do something with your life . Play sports . Hang with friends . Just get your mind off of everything . It helps with letting go .
    It'll just take a long while .
    ..__MiNDYY

  • kori
    17 years ago

    Do stuff to get your mind off of him. If he hit you he is not a man, but a child. An undeserving child, who shouldn't be in relationships with women.

  • kida
    17 years ago

    L