{How do you prove your love}

  • Monica AKA Mika
    17 years ago

    Alright so i told my boyfriend that i love him but he dont think its real he thinks its infactuation and so i want to know how to show him i love him instead of just saying it...anyideas?

  • Birgit
    17 years ago

    I don't think you have to PROVE your love.. It should be something that comes from itself. If he doesn't believe you love him, let him think that. He'll find out sooner or later that it's true. =]

  • ABake
    17 years ago

    You have to show him that you love him, actions mean more than words do in this case.
    So just let him know that you care, but then again he shouldnt tell you that you have to prove your love to him.
    That is kinda mean :(

    I totally didn't make sense but I hope it helped =]

  • Brittney
    17 years ago

    If you really do love him then it will be proved on its on. Maybe he is scared of the commitment?

  • BrokenREALiTy
    17 years ago

    ^ Agreed .

  • *engaged_angel* @>-0---
    17 years ago

    Love... it's so tricky... i am in love, and been with a man for 1 year, however he is significantly older than me... so we have a few issues...

    i show him my love by remembering anniversary's, texting him randomly through the day with messages just saying how much i love him...

    i guess in time, he will begin too see that you really mean it, maybe he just thinks you are confusing love with lust??? only you can know...

  • 4 track demo
    17 years ago

    If love is true, there are no conditions,
    and you shouldn't have to prove anything,
    if you are feeling forced to prove something
    to him...then there is a good chance that
    a problem lies within him...

  • Choose xX Alex Xx Life
    17 years ago

    Perhaps he cant believe what he has and is in denial, thats what happen with my bf (He did finally admit it) All you can do is continue to show your loyalty and if he really cares hell see it himself you dont have to prove anything hun xxx alex xx

  • brokenmirror
    17 years ago

    If he's saying that he must like some other girl, i mean he's practically told you that .____.

  • Prophecies In Kodak
    17 years ago

    Lol. If you love someone.. You just feel it and believe it. I never had to prove love to anyone that I cared about.

    And I agree with Britt on this one. By far.

  • OMGdanielle
    17 years ago

    My boyfriend felt sort of the same way, until he went through some really tough times and lost a lot of people, and i stuck right by his side.
    then he knew i was serious.
    and... here we are today.

  • JayJ
    17 years ago

    First off...Sara you bannana pic is hilarious!!!
    secound off...I have a boyfriend who is like that also, but he soon came around just because I do little things and say cute little things to him and i'm there for him whenever he needs me- if you guys have something he'll relize your words are true.

  • Marly
    17 years ago

    Do something you would only do for him...Do something so "not you" and daring.

  • Amanda Frost
    17 years ago

    Thats dumb that he said that he dont believe you!!

  • Monica AKA Mika
    17 years ago

    ****Update****
    Ok so we have been better since then, he hasnt said that he doesnt believe that i love him at all because i simple told him that i know how i feel and the only reason that i told him was because it was just best that he knew and he felt dumb and he said he was sorry if he made me feel dumb or anything he just didnt understand...But now we have a new problem and i do need your help but i will be posting a new topic for this one...thanks...

  • Elizabeth
    17 years ago

    I know how you feel... It hurts to hear your love say that he doesn't believe you really love him or that the love you share isn't really what it seems.

    My boyfriend personally hasn't said that he doesn't believe me or believe that our love isn't what it seems, he just questions it. When I tell him I love him he asks, "Really?" ...Sometimes I ask him the same thing too... But, the only time we question each others love for another is when we get into fights. And we all know anger works in mysterious ways. In our hearts we know the truth. We end up apologizing for questioning our love and not believing or trusting one another's loyalty and honesty.

    Perhaps that is why he denied your declaration, because of a fight. I don't know, you hadn't mentioned one. I'm just... questioning.