He Broke my heart but I feel like I still need him!

Two weeks ago myboyfriend broke up with me. We seriously were together alot of the time but still tried to make room for our friends. Well now that he's moving on it makes me want him more and more. My friends tell me I'm too good for him but there's somethign about him. He seriously made me smile over everything and made me feel like a great person, there was just something about him that I felt like I needed. Well now he's not there but we still are friends I guess?! Welll I kinda want him back but I don't know exactly how to get him back we work togehter like tongiht we work together and then tom I guess we're both going to the fair.

Sure sometimes you feel like you need somebody to make you happy.. but why don't you start loving yourself. True happiness comes from accepting and loving yourself, at least I think. And just be happy if you and him will just stay friends. =]
Friendship can be stronger than a relationship.
Tc and good luck!

^^I agree with the person before me.
If you want him back you have to act like you don't really care that you two broke up.
And ofcourse your going to feel like you still need him, cos you two were really close and then now he's gone.
It's really hard.
But we can give you advice but only your heart can choose what's best =]

I think you need some time away form him as well. just stop talking to him for a while and avoid seeing him (although you probably have to since you work together)...i know it's hard. but really it's the only thing that helps. and plus this way if he misses you he'll come back..or if he doesn't you'll be on your path to getting over him.
being friends right away is not a good idea in my opinion..cause when you're with him as friends you'll probably feel more than that..as in you'll want more than just friendship..

i went through a similar situation..people i talked to told me to stay as friends..so i did but that just made it a lot harder for me to let go of my feelings for him..and everytime i'd see him all those feeling would come back..and i simply couldn't see him as just a "friend".

so i think it's best to take some time away..and just spend it being you!..and hanging out with friends.
and like people above me suggested, try to be strong and look like the break up didn't effect you.
i think if he loves you and it's meant to be he'll come back..otherwise you're better off without him.
trust me the feelings will pass.

all the best! =]
--Viola

There's a reason why they're called your EX, sweetie . It didn't work out, so why are you trying to revive it ? If he's moving on, let him move on . You can't change that . If life wants you two back together, the sparks will work itself, but apparently, they're all gone . If he's moving on, you should too . I understand the feeling of need for him to be with you, but that'll go away . People always want what they can't have . Just give it time . You'll let go sooner or later .

If things aren't working out between you two, then its probably because they're not meant to work. You can only revive that which has left behind something from which it can be revived, since you two are no longer together it obviously means there is nothing for you to rekindle.

Learn to move on, thats the only way your going to actually survive after a break up.

What was the reason that you broke up...? if you don't mind me asking.

He said he didn't see us going anywhere and thought it would be better if we broke up now than 3 motnhs from now.
And he dind't find it fair he flirted w/ other girls (i dind't care we're teenagers we can flirt it doesn't hurt)
but im realizing it's b/c i didnt put out enough

He obviously isn't the one for you. You're young, he's going to be one of many. By the time you're in and out of college, you would have dated MANY people. The heartache will just get worse, until you become used to dating and you mature. Good luck, and relax and take life as it comes. Try not to let yourself get too attached to men.

You would be too good for him if he could break your heart and not even care then yes you are too good for him. Any one who breakes some one's heart does not care about them.

There are plenty of great guys. Stop hanging out with this one, it'll make it easier to move on. And move on.

Of course you are going to feel like you still need him, you loved him didnt you?! If he really makes you happy get him back. If you need him and makes you happy then why arent you trying to get him back girl!?