Changing

  • S R P
    17 years ago

    Curious as to why change always seems to be toward the bad end of life. "Things change" "People change" and it always seems to be for the worse.

  • MuddinGirl
    17 years ago

    Well I can't tell ya exactly honey but I know what you're feelin. I have changed since I got married. Now not for sure I did the right thing.

  • Gemma*..
    17 years ago

    Change can be a good thing. My boyfriend cheated on me and became a alful person. He broke up with me and went back to his ex. He started to smoke and spread bad romours about me. Then one day he relise how much of a twat he was being and became deppressed because he relised how much he was hurting me, he even started to cut his self. When i found this out he begged for me to come back, i sed that the way i will come back is if he changes, and he did. Now he is a totaly different person and things are so prefect now. It has made us stronger. So therfore change is good. C=

  • Brittney
    17 years ago

    Well mike, I do agree with you. You as a person don't change.
    In the past year a lot has changed about me. I have complete differnet moral than I used to but deep down I'm still the same me.

  • Viola
    17 years ago

    Yes, I agree with Mike here too ^ nicely put.
    and also change can be good..it's just many of us shy away form it because if things change we have to change our ways too in order to ajust to it. But change can bring good things..which are hard to see at first but as time passes you'de be glad they did change. Just depends on your perspective I suppose.

    --Viola

  • ABake
    17 years ago

    People can change for the good.
    Or bad changes are really miracles in disguise.
    I believe that in the end those bad changes that made your life horrible for that period in time, will make your life a lot better in the future.
    Or will simply make your stronger and prepare you for whatever obstacles you may face in the future.
    Hope I helped :)

  • FallenGrace
    17 years ago

    Change is only what you make it =]

    if you only think of the negatives that come from change, then change becomes negative, and if you only think of the posative that comes from change, it becomes posative, and if theres absolutley no posative in the change, then soon another change will come along to make that one better.

    =]