His friend...

So I posted on here before about me and my ex. We are really trying to get back together and actually got to see each other, without our parents knowing...we are doing great except for one problem, his friend. This guy has a total crush on me and has been trying to get with me, since charles and i broke up. Now he is trying to come between us, he makes up lies and everything. what should i do?

I would tell him to back off that you are not the type of person that when a relationship didn't work you go for one of the friends and that you are not interested in him. (Not to put words in your mouth)

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Right...let the man be the fixer of things...

If he has faith in you and the friend is of no interest to you...it's no different from any guy that's after you. Reject and make sure you bf knows and understands what's going on and what you're doing about it. Don't make it any more dramatic than it needs to be.

The guy doesn't need to fix anything -.- It's between her & the friend . She just has to let the boyfriend know . If you're not interested, tell your boyfriend that and what his friend is doing . It's simple . It only bothers you if you let it . And he'll only believe those lies if he doesn't trust you .

Like mindy said, if you dont tell him he wont believe you, just tell him what is going on and tell him about his friends telling lies to break you two up. IF you tell him he'll be sure to sort it out.

Make sure your boyfriend understands the situation so he doesn't start asssuming things this guy is saying are true.

And then ignore him. He's not worth your time; your boyfriend should ignore him too.

K thanks everyone. -VALERIE