{He is actin funni}

Alright so my boyfriend Domonic has been acting really funni lately and even his best friend willie sees it i mean he didnt even want to go to six flags wit him and that is just not normal! He stopped callin me as much as he used to and it seems like i have to call him to talk to him...Then on our 3month anniversary he couldnt get his moms car cuz her boyfriend needed it or something and he told me that he was gonna make it up to me on saturday but now he said that he has to move this saturday and he doesnt know how long its gonna take... i know its something small and i shouldnt be getting irritated but its just that its not like him to do some of the stuff that he is doin...it seems like i did something wrong but then when we do talk everything seems to be ok...my friend told me that it sounds like he is cheating on me but i dont want to jump to extreams what do you think?

He seems to be acting more distant from you. This happened to me and my boyfriend. And he stopped talking to me completely. It turned out he was cheating on me with his ex. My advice is ask him about it and if he doesnt give you a straight answere threaten to leave him until he tells you what is going on.

Alright so he was supposed to come over and make everything up to me but he didnt and so he said he can come tommarow...yea we'll see it just seems like everytime he says hes gonna come over he doesnt...i dont know what to think right now i really dont want to think that he is cheating on me but there are some signs there i mean i also didnt tell you that he hates when i go through his phone. And his best friend willie went wit my best friend ashley and they broke up because she seen a lot of text messages from another girl in there talkin nasty and stuff and now domonic hates when people go through his phone....whats that all about?

Thankz Mike i appreciate it and i appreciate all of ya'll advice i dont know what i would do without you guys!lol

Umm wow whats up with people and having month anniversary's haha im so happy my gf only celebrates a year anniversary but we do count the months anyways 3 months isnt that long of a time... and yes chances are high that hes cheating on you... but if he is dont get sad ugh why egt sad over something that wasnt real??? there wasnt any real lvoe if hes cheating on you so jsut move on... you fall so stand up pick up your fett and move forwards no matter which direction you land move forward from there... and if he cheated on you he will eventually get whats comeing to him = ] stupid guys do stupid things and get hurt in stupid ways thanks to there stupid things... it will all come back to bite him later

I undersatnd what your saying but 3months is kindof a long time and yea if he cheats on me then his love wasnt there but he never said he loved me anyways....i told him that i loved him and i still do...thats why i would be crushed if he cheated on me...

Ok so your giving him a foothold on you so if he moves you fall... stupid! no offence he ahs never told you that he loves you but you give him that much control over your life... think about that and dont jsut tell me you love him think about what your actually doing... think about where it might lead you... girl your not in a healthy spot i can tell you that right now aye so naive regain your own balance without him do not depend on him for your happiness not until he can atleast tell you that he loves you or your jsut aiming to get hurt im sorry but this is the truth if he loves you why cant he say it? just think about it all and learn to hold yourself up... you were able to befroe you were with him have you become that dependant on him supporting you??? you still have the ability to walk on your own USE IT!

Your right i kinda did give him control on my life but he didnt really take it in that way...when i told him how i felt he told me that i shouldnt love him cuz he doesnt want to hurt me and stuff and some of the stuff he says and some of the things he does just make me think that he does love me he is just scared of commitment or getting hurt...But i dont depend on him to make me happy even tho he does i know that i can be happy with or without him...But i'll still be sad if he does cheat on me but he said he would never do that to me...

"thats why i would be crushed if he cheated on me..." is that not what you said? so thats telling me without him you cant be happy but i guess i msut have mis interperted it.. or maybe he knew the relationship might not last and hes going out with you and trying his best even though he neevr had any real feeligns for you except maybe friends and because he wants to see you happy he is trying but then that could only last so long im jsut trying to tell you not to be so naive

You know you are right in a way and i know i can be a lil naive but my best friend grew up wit him and she always tells me that she has never seen him treat a girl the way he treats me and that he must really like me if he does all this stuff for me and idk his best friend willie is my guy too and he tells me that he sees a change in him too and he says that he likes me a lot and will wouldnt lie to me because we grew up together..but idk what to think anymore you just put a lot of thoughts in my head...

Well thoughts are good helps you figure things out now you jsut need to relax and put all the peices together... do something by yourself that makes you relax.. like i either take a hot shower or go for a walk when i want to think and clear my head... the answers are never really that hard to find you just need to know how to look

Yea i always go and watch the sunrise or sunset...its so beautiful but thankz for the advice i appreciate it...he is coming over he'll be here in like an hour...AHH! lol

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