Someone...Anyone?

Okay..So my boyfriend and I have been dating 6 months on August 14...I really love him and he says he's so in love with me..But he is going off to college in the fall and I won't be able to see him as much as I do now...I mean..We spend every minutes together...He has plans that were gonna get married and have kids..But again he's leaving and he has been knowing to cheat on his other girlfriends...Should I break up with him when he leaves? Or just keep dating him...??

That's for you to decide if you want to take the risk that he is lying or not. Either way there is the risk that you're wrong. The trick is thinking which is worse: being cheated on or breaking off a perfectly good relationship out of paranoia. Well decide and act on your decision.

Just see how it goes.

And if you think he would cheat on you, then you shouldn't be dating him in the first place.

If he does cheat on you break it off. My mom stayed with a guy who cheated on her and it broke her badly.

Wow a whole lsit of bad things o.o ok well not that long of a list but still... ok first never let plans of getting married happen... it jsut gets your hopes up and then if it doenst happen your hrut that much more... two kids whoah hey hey hey wait for that kids will ruin your life... practice safe sex until you know you are ready to be stuck raising a kid because they take over your life... put it this way befroe you have a kid you can go travel and stuff.. once you have a kid traveling must stop because it is not good to carry your kid aroudn to a bunch of diff places itll mess him up because he never gets to really make friends or anything so youll have to stay in one place... and third YOUR DATING A GUY WHO IS KNOWN FOR CHEATING HES PROBABALY TOLD ALL HIS GF'S THAT EHS GOING TO MARRY THEM... i dont beleive once a cheater always a cheater but dam when you have a history of it then yeah your a cheater so i can tell you right now a relationship like that most likely wont last be prepared for the worst... but then it migth still work but still be prepared for the worst

Ok must i say again HE HAS A REPUTATION OF CHEATING THE GUY ISNT LOYAL ALREADY HAVING HIM AWAY THAT MUCH HE PROBABLY WILL GO BACK TO HIS BAD HABITS... it would be diff if the guy didnt have that rep but think about it... he has it in him to want more then one girl and hes going to be spending mroe time away from you so he is going to want to occupy that time but that might not happen but its a huge possibilitty

Once a cheater always a cheater is my usual answer but idk do you trust him is the main question that you need to be askin yourself i mean my sister was with this guy anthony for about 8 months before he went to college about 8 hours away and they just took turns going to see eachother and stuff and it worked out for about a year but my sister broke up wit him because she liked some guy over here and didnt think it was fair and stuff but yea if you think you can handle it then make sure he can too and just see if it will work out and if he does cheat then it was his lose and he never loved you like he said he did cuz if he did you would be the only girl for him!

Haha why no i dont know what a period is it is not in my vocabulary. you know who would want to know what one of thsoe thins are. haha ok i jut find puncuation pointless online... then again i rarely use it in my poems too instead when ever i break like a pause in it i go to the enxt line thats how i do my puncuation... really poem are not suppose to have much puncutaion anyways thats why diff styles wehre invented to show what the poet was trying to say... sure every now and then you can put a comma but in poetry most peoiple on this site like to voer use them because its how they were taught in school i guess.. but the only reason the lines get seperated in poems is so you know when a comma should be there but yeah on this site i do not use punctuation alot instead i do this... hahaha

anyways back to the girls problem i hold my ground on what i said its in him to cheat its in him to not stay and wait the less time hes with you the mroe time he has to think about what he wnats to do and who else he wants to be with

If you do love each other than it doesn't matter how far away you are...talk to him about it and tell him your afraid he is going to cheat because he has before. be honest and straightforth. and if you can't trust him then you should brake it off before it gets any more serious.

Thanks...And yeah he moving like 3 hours away..and I talked to him today about it and he said He really does love me and doesn't want to loose me cause I'm the best thing that's happened to him...I trust him a lot and he has trust in me...So hope for the best... :D

"WELL UHHH JUST TO BE CLEAR ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYZ GONNA BE A CHEATER AND I LEARNED THAT THE HARD WAY!!!"

What a load of bull!!!
That once a cheater always a cheater is a load of crap. I was in an unhappy relationship and cheated on him, yet years later i'm with the love of my life and we're getting married and i would never dream of cheating on someone i loved.
Your boyfriend didn't love you if he cheated on you.
Once a cheater always a cheater... don't make me laugh!

Hmm yeah i dont agree with the ocne a cheater always a cheater but i do look at patterns and sorry i do not support cheating at all... why cheat?? jsut break up with the eprson if you want someone else dont go cheat on people thats jsut stupid and causes more pain ugh baka

Well just to tell you if your asking if you should break up with him then thats what your saying. Then you should do what your mind is telling you to do.

Well, if you truely love him then stay with him. If he loves you like he says then he isn't going to hurt you.
Okay so he has been known to cheat in the past. A lot of guys cheat because they are not completely happy with the relationship that they are in, but once they find someone that they are happy in and really IN LOVE then I think it changes. Just like a guy I used to date. He cheated on everygirl he ever dated pretty much. Now he is married and has not cheated on the girl and he said that he finally found what he was looking for.
My boyfriend is also going off to college this coming fall and I am still going to be stuck in highschool, but we trust each other. Do you trust your boyfriend? If you do then you shouldn't have anything to worry about.
Try talking to him and see what he thinks about the whole situation. Explain to him that you really do love him but you are scared of losing him. Maybe he will see where you are coming from. Though I think it's up too you what you want to do in the end. Follow your heart. Even if things don't work out you always learn from the past.

Yeah, i say, well if u think he loves u and u no u love him, then you should stay with him, but just like, even when he does go away and see eachother, if he acts strangly around you....just be like, are u cheating on me, get him to look u in the eyes.....guys cant resist it.....they get all fidgity...

Thanks Amanda those were some pretty good quesitons to ask myself...I may be putting my heart on the line for this guy...But I think he's worth it...And if we do break up I'll learn from them and put them in the past...Thanks Everyone...

Welll if u really like him u would trust him