Someone.. I could use some one to talk to..

So iv had bf for almost 3 years now and i just dont feel like the sparks are there like they use to be, but like he was my first everything and i do love him but now im sarting to wonder if im only with him because im so comfortable with him and its hard to imagine my life without him in it...and im just at such a loss as what to do.

As of right now i have no plan..im really just so confused on what i should do.

I would talk to the guy. Say that you aren't sure what you are feeling, but tell him your concerns and ask him for help. Then depending on his reaction and what he does, it can help you to see things clearer.

Yaa i should but i have a feeling its going to turn into a huge fight.. :-/

Take a break from seeing eachother for a while. That may work.

Communication is the benchmark of a good relationship...each side should feel comfort in telling the other everything they want to. If you think it will turn into a huge fight, then maybe that is your answer...

Hun.. im right there with you.. ive been with this guy for almost 3 years.. he just got ungrounded and i saw him the for the first time (hanging out) in 2 months... it was just 2 days ago.. it was weird though i wasnt sure if everything was the same.. i plan on sitting him down and really talking with him... making sure we are on the same page.. ask him how he feels.. you never know maybe he is afraid of the same thing? he just doesnt know how i bring it up.... communications is a big factor in relationships.

Hi...

K well... jus talk! i get hurt by guys wen i don talk 2 them bout how i feel! maybe if u talk u will be better!

Ok look you dont feel sparks because you are comfortable now thats how it is... ok try imagining losing him if it hruts you to lose him then you still love him then you should stay together... jsut cause you dont feel anything doesnt mean nothing there.. its the same for people who are related as much as they act like they hate eachother when it comes down to it they love eachother its no diff when your comfortable you dont really fill it anymore but it does not mean you dont love him anymore jsut do some more exciting things like go to amusments aprks or go camping or hiking together

Are you sensitive

What?
But yeah just talk to him, or do something that the both of you enjoy and maybe get the "sparks" flying again.
Or maybe you just don't love him anymore....
But only you can decide.
But maybe you should try and figure out what your feeling because you might hurt him the longer you wait to break it off.
If that's what you decide to do.

Is who sensitive?? anyways yeah that is true if you dont love him dont hold him on and keep dragging him with you but i still think you might have feeligns for him.. so you have to think selfishly and figure out how you feel about him forget about how you think he will react or how he feels think about your own.. think about leaving him think about how it would effect you

Distance makes the heart grow fonder,
think about how much you'll like him if you never see him again. lol

maybe you should do something together... save up you money and go to disneyland or something.

Thanks guy for all your advice. We do lots of things together so i know thats not rly going to make the sparks come back, deep down i think i know that he really isnt the one for me and im being selfish by staying with him..i do love him..but i dont know..and what makes the decision even harder is the fact that non of my friends like him..and my mom thinks i could do better...