Kind of nervous....

Alright well,

my boyfriends 3 years older then me and he's leaving for college on August 30. I'm going to miss him so much. Though he's only going about an hour and a half drive away. But still, he's getting his own life now, new friends and new opportunities and new everything.

I'm really nervous, I know I can trust him and everything, but I just don't want to be left, you know. I've been with him for so long. I love him, and I feel like he's getting a life without me.

He's so excited to go, and I'm excited for him but I just don't want to be left, you know?

Is there anything I can do to cope with this, I want to do something now rather then start doing something when he leaves.

That must be hard for you.

I'm supporting my boyfriend also. It's just, right now, he's a big part of my life. Before him and I started dating I had a huge group of friends, and also one very best friend. My best friend, this girl meant the world to me.

And like a lot of people who make this big mistake, they get all caught up with their boyfriend, and start ditching their friends. HUGE mistake.

I now have only one friend. Her name is Sarah and I see her about once every two weeks, but she isn't a close friend. Just someone to hang out with, not someone to really talk to.

I just don't know what to do. It's kind of like I don't have anybody anymore. And I'm really lonely.

Yeah I guess so.

It's just kind of nerve-wrecking also when he meets new people, more grown-up sophisticated women.

I'll admit that I'm a naturally jealous person.

And what am I gonna do, who am I gonna talk to, hang out with?

I hate being without someone, I get sad if I'm alone in my house for more than an hour.

Thank you.

That's really cute. Maybe I'll do some of that.

For once, I'm really glad I posted this topic. Usually people jump on me, lol. I really love your advice, I'll definetly take it, and won't act like a crazy jealous psycho :)

Omg. this is so weird. this is liek exactly what is happening in my life right now. except my boyfriend is only going like 45 ins away. but still. the best thing to do is just have a talk with ur bf. let him know you are bummed. thats what i did.