Im mad about a girl

Ok well. She was 9 when we met i was 11 but i didnt like her. after about a year we were good friends and probably best friends but we didnt know it. then i developed a love for her. its lasted a year im 13 now she's 11 and she knows. we had a falling out but we're trying to work on our friendship. even though she didnt tell me she liked me i think she might but im gunna wait until shes older anyway. I dont want to put any pressure or anything on her i just really really love her so what are your thoughts?

I think good luck, but don't get your hopes up because, time goes by, and feelings change...but yeah 11 is a bit young I reckon, just don't be disapointed if she suddently starts liking someone else.

LOL "little" omg, thats so mean rofl

Ehehehe, bob your crazy man

Wow! you're 13 and already in love. ok. well about the waititng..it didn't go too well for me. my boyfriend and i were supposed to wait but that didn't work. (not saying that it won't for you). the thing is she's young, really young, she doesnt even know who she is yet or how she fits into this world. she can change her mind really quickly..and maybe start liking another guy, as someone above me mentioned ^
anyways i do wish you the best of luck. so just um don't rush it..and give her some freedom, well yourself too for that matter. both of you are too young to be trapped in 'love' so soon.
good luck! =]
--Viola

oh Bob. haha. ^

When you said that you were older now, I seriously thought you were going to say she's 16 and you're 18. But you actually said she's 11 and you're 13. I was severely shocked. LOL.

Ahem. Yeah. I agree with Bobby. Your hormones are pretty much all over the place, so don't get too excited thinking it's 'love'.

Love at 13? I think thats a little young. But good luck cause as bob said feelings change and at only 13 there is still a lot of room left for growing up and a lot of change.

Sorry, sweetie, but you aren't in love.

Like others have said, your hormones? They're going crazy. Wait until you're actually older, as in, much older. Okay?

=)

She's probably chasing another guy already -.- You only waited like a year or two ? Yay . Such an achievement . You're younger than I am and you think you're in love ? Ha , right . Go actually live your newly teenaged life .

Dude your not in love, your just attached to her because she's somebody like you, a kid. In other words she's a person you can confide in, somebody to comfort you just like your parents did when you were little.

Grow up,live your life and after all of that you'll understand what love really is, for now stick to being a kid .

You people are terrible. Don't tell him not to love. How else would he learn? Wait it out till he's mature enough? Who's to say he's not mature enough for love? Love isn't something reserved for adults. Complicated relationships are...but what makes you think that he's gonna go through a relationship just like the ones you have?

Don't try to bring your ideas of love to focus when he's seeing it from a 13 year old's view. I say love and let love little man, but learn to let go if you can't. It isn't as horrible as those previous posts make it sound. Good luck

Yeah atcually......13...that's to young basically impossible to understand what REAL LOVE is between a girl and guy.....I think it's just a crush...or maybe cause ur hitin that stage of life....stuff gets unclear but dude..ur waiting for her to get older? that's sad...my sister is 11 and if a guy was waiting for her I would kill him.

Hey i'm 15 2 years older than you and my xboyfriend / lover still is mine not his anymore... dumped me monday mind you i love him every much and he still cares about me... but he is just tired of my bipolar.... i can't take pills for it right now so i am tring to deal with it all on my own... and just wait you can love someone from afar for a long time i liked my lover for about a year before i asked him out... and we were first from the start even before i liked him so we knew each other pretty well...

Oh, come on guys! It's young love, that's so adorable.
This kid doesn't have to have actual true love, let him have whatever he's feeling.

I think that if you really like this girl, then go for it.

Well let me explain more. I really love her and my heart and head tell me its true. I am going to wait and "hormones" will just have to wait for true love. A quote from the books Eragon & Eldest by Christopher Paolini says "Ones loins can turn the sweetest man into a monster". Kids seem to be growing up faster these days. I dont really care about crushes and that any time over 10 but i think that 13 and 14 year olds who try to attract the opposite sex and even try to lose their virginity are stupid. Anyway im going to wait until shes older because we have both matured rather quickly and i have lots of feelings for her, and to make sure i dont stuff up i want her to be able to understand my feelings.

Its not a question of how mature you are, to actually love someone you have to first understand what love is, at 13 years old i doubt you even know many complexities thats a relationship involves.

Dont wait for her to get a little older, wait until YOU grow up.

By then ill be 15 so dont worry. I understand the complications etc. shes broken my heart before but if i didnt truely love her i wud have quit ages ago

Even fi your 15 doesn't mean you'll understand . I've met 20=30 guys that dont understand love, she's broken your heart before in other words she's not interested -_-

She did it when she didnt know how i felt

All the same, she doesn't give a damn -_-

Mate y r u so negative? Oh well. If she doesnt give a damn ill just have to try harder

Ok for one you don't have to be 20 something to know what love is... i'm 15 and i have loved someone for a good 3 years now... the man i love is 18 and he loves me back... i was 12 when i met him and he was 15 so i was young and i understand love completely... it isn't just about your feelings you have to think about yours and about the one you love and anything you decide will get to both of you some how... but believe me that is just the tip of the whole iceburg... there is alot more to understand

Akmal's not being negative . He's telling you what is . Whether she knew how you felt or not, she still broke your heart . If she felt the same, she wouldn'a .

13 n in love common now really, u might think ur in love but trust me ur not ur just starting to mature and when u get older ull find lots of women atractive n ull start liking them.

I think that was negativity. How do you know what she was thinking? I think Dan would know best out of any of us so don't put words from your mind into his posts. Someone mentioned young-love. Thank You! I also think it's real and it exists. I really don't get why you people think kids and teens don't know what love is. If they can love their parents or siblings, why not another person out-side of the family?? They might have an even better picture than you would. For one thing, it's usually more pure than our thoughts of relationships and love. Stop assuming that you are automatically more mature just because you're older and that you would know better than they do. It's love for them...not love for you. Like I said before..don't bring your ideas to focus when he's seeing it from his view and experience.

Thank you. I say its love because i know in my heart its more than a boyhood crush.

Im surprised. I though i would have more support in this matter.

Hmmm i see!

ChoaticallyMe, i never said anything about being older making you more mature. I said grow up only then will you understand love, as for the whole bring my own ideas into focus i wasen't doing that i was merely asking him to use his common sense,to open his eyes and see the reality of the situation. You on the other hand are trying to enforce your ideas upon others, trying to show us that your views on young love are correct, nobody else has done that but you thought you'd say it to sound like your helping, your not helping your just sugar coating your words to make him think he is in love -_-

Maybe I am in love I understand that for myself. But anyway, straight answer, your wrong

You understand only that which you can fully comprehend, your 13 years old and i know you dont know what love is because you dont even kow whether "your girl" likes you you said she broke your heart beore and judging by what you've said she hasen't paid much attention to the matter ever since, what kind of loe is that?

I may be wrong about your feelings towards her but i know that what you have is not love but rather a childhood crush something that will wither away within a few months, you wont be able to wait for her to grow up because other girls will come your way and you will start to like them.

To put it simply your a kid who is lacking common sense and has fallen head over heels in love with a girl who doesn't even acknowledge his existence.

OK 1: We are BEST FRIENDS! She acknowledges me!
2: I've loved her and no other for over a year.
3: She's hinted that she likes me which is why im going to look her in the eyes and say i love her.
4: If i really loved her i would feel the same in 2 years so ill just have to see

Ok your best friends the, YOU'VE liked her for a long time, but if you think about it she is 11 not even a teenager yet she can barely grasp the concept of love so giving you hints is nothing if she doesn't understand such things.

You said IF you really loved her in other words you wont have a crush on her in 2 years time, although your saying your in love you dont think your going to like her after 2 years.

f anything you should understand that your quite fallibe about the whole love thing .

I think your just telling me how I feel.

Not really i couldnt care less about your little crush, im just trying to get you to use your common sense and understand that she doesn't like you.

But this is your problem so go ahead and do whatever.

Well this topic will be banned soon -_-

I think you are telling me how i feel. Well i think maybe you feel jelousy? Did something bad happen to you at my age? I dont think you should critisize what i cant help or change anyway

Im not jealous im just making trying to get you to see the reality of the situation, the only bad thing that happened to me at your age was high school..always hated it .

im not trying to criticize you, but at your age you wouldn't understand the things that can go wrong with a relationship so i'd advise you to leave it alone, on the other hand you can experience a relationship and brace yourself for a breakup.

Believe me, i know all about the bad things

Lol

ok i'll agreee with you then xD

just dont do anything foolhardy