Brandon is his name

  • Taylor
    17 years ago

    He told me he liked me we were seconds away from having sex then i was like sorry i would but im on my period.

    so we didn't.
    but he then a couple days later he went to camp for a week.
    came back we hung a couple times and then
    like 4 days ago i said do you still like me and he said a little.

    how do i win back his love?

  • MischieviousMya
    17 years ago

    Wow. you can't win his love. it sounds like he only wanted to have sex with you and now you couldnt or didnt, hes not interested. why am i not surprised? jeeez i have failed to meet a guy that cannot live with a simple no when it comes to sex. my advice would be to talk to him...?

  • Taylor
    17 years ago

    Well see...
    i really was on my period lol.
    and he isnt the type to hit it and quit it.
    he just kinda lost interest and i need to figure out how to get it back.

  • MischieviousMya
    17 years ago

    Oh lol.

    hmmm thats kinda odd how he lost interest in such a short time. do you think he might have met someone else?

  • Taylor
    17 years ago

    Ha, no.
    his bestfriend is my bestfriend too.
    and we talk about everything.
    my first question for our friend was is there someone else.
    and he was like no..
    i think he just wants you to play ard to get.
    and im like i dont get it.
    lol i know they like the game of course.
    i love the game myself.
    but after so long its boring.

  • MischieviousMya
    17 years ago

    Oh haha. yeah playing hard to get seems childish in many ways and has no point in my eyes. besides how do we know if we were playing hard enough to get? lol

  • Taylor
    17 years ago

    Oh yess i agree.
    but if thats what he likes.
    shit ill do it.
    im in love with this kid.
    he means evrything to meee!!!!!!!!!!

  • MischieviousMya
    17 years ago

    Ahhh love makes us do crazayyy things hehehe =D

  • Taylor
    17 years ago

    It so does.
    ahh..
    hes just so different from any other guy.

  • Taylor
    17 years ago

    This threads not for real???
    what are you talking baout?

  • Jaime
    17 years ago

    He's using you, or was attempting to use you, for physical reasons. He doesn't care about you. You should just move on, you can definitely do better.

  • Taylor
    17 years ago

    Well im not gonna give up on him soo.
    thank you for your advice..but i love him,

  • Taylor
    17 years ago

    Okay seriously my age may be 14 but i dont act it.
    okay..
    maybe you should take a lesson from this and realize some people grow up faster than others.
    and i am one of those people.
    i had to take care of myself at 7.
    i never got that chance to be a kid.
    and i never will.
    so thank you for being a bitch.
    but seriously maybe you need to grow up a little.

  • Kayla
    17 years ago

    I know you're in love sweetie.. but maybe he really was using you like the others said? ^ I mean.. you didn't sleep with him, then ask if he still likes you and he said a little. That is a definite sign that he just wanted in your pants and probably only wanted you for that reason. You could do so much better, you have no idea.. You don't deserve that from any guy. Before you make any big discussions though, talk to Brandon about it.. ask if he minds that you two didn't have sex and maybe why he feels so differently about you.

    I hope I helped!

  • Dan
    17 years ago

    Ok 1: People do grow up faster than others
    2: Its not uncommon for 14 year olds to lose their virginity these days
    3: Something may of happened at camp
    4: Angelina, I am so tired of you picking on us younger people just coz u think your right
    5: Sorry to say but ive always found 14 year old non virgins to just be sluts