WHAT TO DO..........!

i think long term relationships are hard to do.. i wouldnt trust him or wait for him.. depends on your situation

I say no. If he even THOUGT about cheating on you ONCE then I'd boot 'em.
It would be hard for me but I would have to do it. Hey, a girls gotta do what a girl's gotta do.
There are way better people out there, hon. You may not find that person right away but hey, marriage can wait a while. You don't want to make a HUGE mistake.

alot has to do with the age. i mean sure if u think ur in love and all and u really do love him then that is great. but how can u ever show ur love if u live in 2 completly diffrent states?the thing that really gets me is that he cheated on u, and even if he says he won't do it again, he is a guy, and once a chance presents itself his first reaction would probably be go. i wouldn't trust him if i were u.