Jelousy

  • Sydney
    17 years ago

    Lately I've been getting jelous over my friend liking my bestfriend Casey. He and I are really close and we sort of had a thing for like 1 minute. He was pracitcally my first kiss (turns out he didnt like me like that but of course i did) Although we had our thing were still close as friends. My other friend has started liking him and Its fine with me because I dont like him but tonight he was talking to her on the phone which they seem to do all the time and Im getting completely jelous for no reason it seems. I dont even like him but why am i so jelous? I figure its because I dont want to share him or maybe I actually do still like him...? No clue what so ever but I know that Im sick of this overwhelming feeling but what to do about it? I dont want this to ruin or friendship or anything so bit of help or advise please?

  • Rose not your average
    17 years ago

    Ik have the same problem and i dont know what to do! and now he wont talk to me anymore beacuse of this other girl. i dont know what to say i guess just maybe try telling him if he is really a true friend he will understand and time will tell

  • Sydney
    17 years ago

    He doesent really know Im jelous but Im like snapping at him and hes talkign to her like right now and im so sdlkjfldks!! Ahh! He doesnt like her as far as I know but still...It bugs the crap out of me.

  • luv Shelbz luv
    17 years ago

    Oh sweetie that must be rlly hard. It is hard when ur a caught in the middle like that. I don't know if this helps but my best friend liked the same boy i did and then she ended up going out w/ him and she told one of my friends she did it just so i couldnt have him which made me completley jealous.
    "Ahh! He doesnt like her as far as I know but still...It bugs the crap out of me."
    Yep to hear her talk about ur friend like that must be simply aggrivating. I know im yung but i hope i helped in some way. sry hun

  • ***searching for the one
    17 years ago

    I think your just jelous because hes your best friend and you feel that if he has someone else to hang out with you'll be left in the dust.

  • Brittney
    17 years ago

    Your probably just afraid of losing your best friend. Which if he is a true friend then he won't forget about you. Try talking to him and let him know how you feel. Maybe it will help you out.

  • Atomic
    17 years ago

    Jealousy is unbecoming.

    But I know what you mean.

    Should reconsider your feelings for him.

    Perhaps you like him.

    Or...

    Perhaps you like Casey. =/

    ( )_( )
    (='.'=)
    (")-(") Arrivederci!

  • Sydney
    17 years ago

    Thanks : ] Hmm. Im still not sure but the feelings somewhat going away, the jelousy aspect of it. I think I just dont want to be the 3rd wheel when it comes to the two of them & maybe I still havent gotten over him yet. And having a bf isnt such a big deal for me, its more of losing him & her over it.