He says he loves me but my sense tells me he dosent

Well okay, first off im 14 he's 17. We really like each other, well i kno i like him alot. He's done so much for me, at first his friends made fun of him cause of the age difference, they would always laugh at him but they are really nice once i got to know them anyways the thing was he didnt care wut they thought of us. Wich i thought was really cute. He took me to the grad boat cruise/dinner/dance it cost 120$ he paid, wich i thought was even more cute n we werent even dating then. I started to like him even more. After a month dating i was at his house n he was on the computer, he went to the wash room and i sorta over looked at his email. It was sent to his ex awhile ago n it was her reply, He said to her your a great person and im still not over you, i miss you. She said awwee i miss youu too. My mouth completly droped open i asked him what it was. He said " I was drunnk and it was long time ago before i really started to like you. Erin dont worry i have more feelings for you then her." anyways cut to the chase i believed him but then he said he was a virgin n one of hayleys guy friends went nuts when he herd about me n my boyfriend hes 17 too, he said my boyfriend was lieing he had sex with hayley *my boyfriends ex* soo right now hes in europe visiting family n im in seattle visiting my family and i sent him an email wut this was all about. i dont know rather to trust my boyfriend or this other guy. what do ur sense's tell you about my boyfriend or this other guy?

I agree with britt

Well the other guys hes been in jail and hes been to court. He had a crazy gf mercedes and he said he always had a thing for me n that he would do anything for me. i took it as a complement and he moved to my high school witch started creeping me out he beat up one of my best friends n he had to go to the hospital n he said he was sorry he jsut didnt want me getting hurt ... my best friends was a guy his age dan ...anyways this guy is very protective of me n he has always had a thing for me but i never took it sseriously untill he witched schools n always came up to my locker to walk me to class him n my boyfriend are worst enimies soo i dono who to believe

Okay the guys name is garette n garette beat up dan haha i thought i typed it a bit confusing sorry

Ask him the truth. If he is doing it then I don't know. Well if he wrote the email a long time ago and said he was drunk I don't think he was he wouldn't of told you that he was drunk and he wouldn't of hidden it from you in the first place.

Well if the other guy likes you then it could just be an act to break the two of you up or make you mad at him or something. With people like that you can never tell.
Talk to your boyfriend. Thats the easist way.

Yea thats true.....:(

Yeaa i really need to talk to my boyfriend but its hard cause hes in europe visiting his family , so its a 9 hour difference n i dont wanna waste my whole day checking my emails

Well talk to him when he gets back. You need to know the truth.

I gave him the number to the place im at n he said he will call when he gets the chance soo il just wait then :)

Well, hopefully everything will turn out okay.
Wish you the best!

Well....looks like you already got the help you needed.
But one thing, if this guy not your boyfriend, the other guy, wants to be with you and all that then ofcourse he would lie to you.
He would probably do anything to break you too up.
Duhh...lol

I don't know if I helped too much, but hope all works out for ya!

Wow i talked to him n my boyfriend didnt lie he told me everything between him n garrette n why he would do that ....garrette does lie alot and you were right he would do anything to break us up im glad we had oour talkk thanks you guyss(L) foor all ur helpp!!!!

I'm really glad sweetie. hope everything goes good for you from now on! :)

I didnt start snoping in his emails it was just right in front of me n im not insecure about myself i trust him a ton but sometimes u might wanna listen to wut other people have to say becuz maby they see someething u dont see anyways everythings fine now n i hope it will stay like that ....but i guess i cant get mad at him for missing his ex cause sometimes i miss mine too anyways tthanks for ur help guys :D n opions :D