How do you no when somone really love you?

  • julie
    17 years ago

    I find it hard to trust and believe my boyfriend what kind of things should he do for me that would be obviouse that he loved me? been seein him a yr and abit just keep worring that am wasting my time just dont want another failed relationship

  • ABake
    17 years ago

    It's only you that can tell when your boyfriend loves you or not.
    :)
    Well, if you have been together a year then don't you think he would love you?
    Do you love him?

  • julie
    17 years ago

    Ye a love him i just worry that it will all end in tears like my other relationship you would think that i would no if he loved me but just carnt help beein negative thats all:)

  • ABake
    17 years ago

    Well, maybe you should talk to him.
    If you don't think he loves you then maybe you should not be with him...but that is just me.

  • Brittney
    17 years ago

    Try not to look at the bad. Obviously there is a reason that the relationship has lasted this long. Why would he waste a year of his life with someone that he didn't love or a least care about A LOT! Try to think of all the good times the two of you have had together. Don't be scared of what is going to happen. Just live each day. If things end, then it's just another lesson learned. Just think positive though.

  • julie
    17 years ago

    Ye ya right i should talk to him about it just find it hard to bring things like this up anyway thanks for ya comment guess a will have to sort this one out on my own:)

  • julie
    17 years ago

    I just find it hard to be positive thats all i was with my ex for seven years we never moved out togther never got engaged it was just a waste of time just scared of that happening again

  • Brittney
    17 years ago

    Well, if it is true love then he isn't going to leave you. I'm sure it's hard. Even more times then others. Just be strong. Try thinking that your previous relationship ended for a reason. Who knows, maybe so that this one could happen. Don't hold back from your boyfriend know though. That will only cause problems.
    Hope it helps.

  • Sam Azam
    17 years ago

    Love is - Loving someone for not only all of their great qualities and points, but loving them for their flaws as well.

  • TrueLovesVictim
    17 years ago

    Maybe your being a lil paranoid? odn't take to much into the paranoia cuz that could cause an end to the rel. just talk to him about it.

  • Kelsie
    17 years ago

    If u have been with ur bf a year, and u still cant trust him, you might want to check into that. you can tell he loves you just by noticing the small little simple things. i know my boyfriend loves me because he talks to me like he really cares, he always tries to make me happy and yeah we fight but i know he loves me because he always wants to protect our relationship and fix everything. how do you know if he loves you, its different for every person. but i think you will know for sure if he does just by the way he acts towards you.