MrsBryAnt
17 years ago
I am so confused. You see I just got some mail from an ex. I was pretty sure he was over me by now, but everytime I start to think that he comes running back. Why? I have no clue. He told me he still has feelings for me and always will, but everytime I go to give hime another chance he screws it up. Like my Freshmen year I decided I would give him another chance, but he cheated on me with some new girl. Then my Sophmore year he came back and decided that he wanted to be back with me, but when I decided I would give him another chance he was already back with the girl he cheated on me with. He had me thinking that he actually had feelings for me....but you know I am always wrong about that. Now I am getting ready to go into my Junior year and he just now decides again that he still has feelings for me. I just dont understand how he can do all that to me then come back. How can he just ignore me most of the time and still have feelings for me. I have a boyfriend and now he is going to tell me this. I am happy with my boyfriend. We get along very well. We are always together and never fight. Now this. I am so confused. I am not going to break up with my boyfriend over it because I like him too much. Besides I would just get stabbed in the back again. It always turns out the same way. Well, if you have any advice comment please. I could use it. |
WiNgS Of StEeL
17 years ago
Well hun....all i can say is that he looks like all he wants you is for a booty call....and it doesnt sound like he really truelly likes you if he keeps hurting you |
BrokenREALiTy
17 years ago
What does your ex matter when you have a boyfriend you're happy with and like? You're not going to break up with him so why care about what your ex is doing? He's just being an imbecile guy. Who gives? |
Sam Azam
17 years ago
I have experienced a similar situation, where my ex would continually tell me that she still loved me etc. I knew it wasn't true, she was fishing, she wanted to hear the same things back from me and didn't want me ever getting over her. Sometimes it's just a case of he don't want you but he don't want anyone else to have you. |
Birgit
17 years ago
Really.. why would you go back AGAIN to him, if you actually know that he'll treat you bad again ;]? Well sure you don't know that, but he has already hurt you a couple of times, so I don't think he's worth it... =] Besides, if you can get along with your bf now.. just enjoy that. And indeed.. Ignore the guy ;] |
Rose not your average
17 years ago
Well just dont listen to him! ignor him when he says he wants you back it sounds like he doesnt really have feelings for you only uses you. |
brokenmirror
17 years ago
Your happy with your current boyfriend and your ex clearly doesn't give a damn about how much he is hurting you by doing this to you. |