Just so confused

  • MrsBryAnt
    17 years ago

    I am so confused. You see I just got some mail from an ex. I was pretty sure he was over me by now, but everytime I start to think that he comes running back. Why? I have no clue. He told me he still has feelings for me and always will, but everytime I go to give hime another chance he screws it up. Like my Freshmen year I decided I would give him another chance, but he cheated on me with some new girl. Then my Sophmore year he came back and decided that he wanted to be back with me, but when I decided I would give him another chance he was already back with the girl he cheated on me with. He had me thinking that he actually had feelings for me....but you know I am always wrong about that. Now I am getting ready to go into my Junior year and he just now decides again that he still has feelings for me. I just dont understand how he can do all that to me then come back. How can he just ignore me most of the time and still have feelings for me. I have a boyfriend and now he is going to tell me this. I am happy with my boyfriend. We get along very well. We are always together and never fight. Now this. I am so confused. I am not going to break up with my boyfriend over it because I like him too much. Besides I would just get stabbed in the back again. It always turns out the same way. Well, if you have any advice comment please. I could use it.

  • WiNgS Of StEeL
    17 years ago

    Well hun....all i can say is that he looks like all he wants you is for a booty call....and it doesnt sound like he really truelly likes you if he keeps hurting you
    so maybe you should tell ur current bf and just ignore the crap out of him ahah..if u get emails dnt even open em just delete them

    trust me ag uy is not worth giving ur love and ur tiem to if hes going to hurt you and ignore you!!

    if your happy with ur currnt bf then i say TO HELL WITH YOUR EX!! lol

    be happy now forget your past sorrows and POSITIVE THINKING :D
    hehe
    hoped it helped

  • BrokenREALiTy
    17 years ago

    What does your ex matter when you have a boyfriend you're happy with and like? You're not going to break up with him so why care about what your ex is doing? He's just being an imbecile guy. Who gives?

    You're fine where you are . Your ex needs to go grow a brain .

  • Sam Azam
    17 years ago

    I have experienced a similar situation, where my ex would continually tell me that she still loved me etc. I knew it wasn't true, she was fishing, she wanted to hear the same things back from me and didn't want me ever getting over her. Sometimes it's just a case of he don't want you but he don't want anyone else to have you.

  • Krazikoko
    17 years ago

    IGnOre him.

  • Birgit
    17 years ago

    Really.. why would you go back AGAIN to him, if you actually know that he'll treat you bad again ;]? Well sure you don't know that, but he has already hurt you a couple of times, so I don't think he's worth it... =] Besides, if you can get along with your bf now.. just enjoy that. And indeed.. Ignore the guy ;]

  • Rose not your average
    17 years ago

    Well just dont listen to him! ignor him when he says he wants you back it sounds like he doesnt really have feelings for you only uses you.

  • brokenmirror
    17 years ago

    Your happy with your current boyfriend and your ex clearly doesn't give a damn about how much he is hurting you by doing this to you.

    keep your boyfriend, ditch the ex and you'll live happily ever after..or until you move to another guy <.<

  • Brittney
    17 years ago

    Just ignore your ex. Let your current boyfriend know whats going on and then forget about it. Your ex isn't worth being with. Your right the same thing would happen again. So don't even give him the time of day to hurt you again.