In love with two guysQ!!!!!!!!!!

Ok so heres the deal....im going out with this guy who i do truelly love....and he proposed to me and i said ye...then along came this other guy who i also have strong feelings for....and like m not sure if its just that inital attraction wen u first met someone u like or somehting more...i could never leave my current fiance!...i love him to much...but the other guy is always making me feel so special and its confusing me!!

wot do i do??????????????????

In love with two guys??..not possible..well not really. And you just met this other guy..Hunn, I don't think you love him..
Your fiance on the other hand you have made a promise to him by saying you want to be his wife..I don't think you should break that for just some guy that comes along..if you really loved him you wouldn't.
Ans a s Britt said you must work out your issues, before you marry your fiance. Having a few doubts here and there i suppose is normal but if you really love him I don't think you would have feelings for anyone else. And if you realy don't want to jepordize your future with him I suggest you stop talking to the other guy.
Anyways only you can make the decision..just be wise.
good luck! =]
--Viola

Loving two people, that's a big problem. If you truly love your fiance, you will understand that he has chosen you, and only you and would be crushed to find out that you were debating your love for another. You were really even asking yourself if your attraction to another man is strong than your love for him.
I know that you really like this other man, that he makes you feel special and loved, in a different way than your fiance makes you feel. But girl, understand that...you said yes to this man for a reason, and just because a new, different man comes in the picture saying he loves you and all that, remember who was the man who got on his knee to ask to be with you for the rest of your life.
You may be attracted to this other man, yet...look inside every feeling you have for both of them. With this other man, do you just like him being around because you know your fiance will always be there and you want to escape into a new world knowing you can always return when things go wrong? Or are you truly, truly in love with this other man?

You're going to marry a guy that you claim to be in love with, while you're in love with another guy at the same time? Psh . Step back and take a look; don't tell me you don't get the big picture .

I don't believe that you can TRULY love two people at once.

Well as I said, I don't think it's possible to love two people at once, but even if she did, you can't just say "don't be in love with him". Human emotions are a crazy thing, and love is something we have no control over.

I think you should break off your engagement. Do you even understand how serious that kind of commitment is? You are clearly not mature enough for that situation. If you were, you wouldn't be out falling for other guys who say they like you or whatever.

I -hate- when people so young get engaged. It means nothing anymore, because they are broken all the time. If you plan to be with someone forever, then you have a TON of time to get engaged. And situations like this just completely belittle the importance of marriage.

You cant be in love with your fiancee if you like this other guy, it eitheer on or the other.

getting engaged when you love some other guy is complete lunacy. Wait until your mature enough to handle that kind of commitment for now shut up, sit down and take a good long look at both guys and make some decisions -_-

I don't think you know what Love is, mate. If you were in love just as much as you say you are with your fiancé, then you really shouldn't be feeling an 'initial attraction' with anyone. It just proves that you haven't grown that much as a person to understand how Love works. You're not stupid, just naive. You're 17 and your hormones are all over the place. But Angelina is right, I don't think you should be putting your boyfriend through this, especially seeing as he doesn't even know how you're currently feeling. Why rush into marriage just yet anyway? You lack experience and the knowledge that love isn't just a two week course and you can pull out the divorce papers when you're bored of it. Commitment is the key. And I don't think you know what that is just yet.