Confused

Ok my xboyfriend / father of my unborn baby broke up with me a good week or two ago.. im getting over him and i called up one of my old friends that i haven't talked to in a while because my xboyfriend didn't like me to talk to other guys that he didn't know... so i got to talking to my old friend and then his friend got on the phone well he gave me his number and wanted me to call him... then gave the phone back to my friend and i talked to him and then he had to go so i called his friend... well i like my friend and his friend... but i like his friend more then the other one... but if i tell him this he will get mad at me... because he says he loves me so much and he doesn't want to get hurt and all i think of him as a friend.. because of how many promises he broke to me before... and i really really like his friend and i don't know how to tell him this... and i'm confused.... i do want someone that can be a 'father' to the baby but i just don't want to force it on someone

Yea i know... thats the hard part... my friend really wants to be in the childs life.... and i started to talk to his friend and he thinks i'm cool and asked where i'm going to be giving birth the to the baby so he can come... and i swear my friend got my period because he is being really moody

They don't have to be dating you to be in your baby's life. The baby's father just left; why not just step back, take a look at life and relax instead of thinking about all these things? Like Britt said, "Just hang out." Besides, if you like his friend, he has to accept that your feelings for him aren't like that, whether it hurts or not he has to suck it up.

I read the word 'friend' too many times and lost track.

I would just hang... but i don't really have much friends anymore... my x's friends where my friends... and i don't want to go hang with them because he is usually around them... and the one friend i do have that he doesn't is off and doesn't live that close... the two boys i'm talking about are Ray (my friend) and mike (ray's friend)... and i have always hated the fact of being single... idk why but i don't like to do things alone and all my friends have jobs or something else to do besides come over to swim or something... since i can't ride bikes or do any of my normal stuff

Sounds like you're just looking for a boyfriend to be a father figure to your child...which doesn't absolutely have to happen. just think for a bit, and if you really do like one of these guys then sure, go for it.

All your baby needs is you.