Okay continuation of my old problem... even worse now!! plz help

K... some of you may remember my situation with my ex bf.. who happens to be my best friends now.. and how i didnt like him calling me his bestfriend all the time cuz i was confused on our situation..
well pretty sure ive fallen for his best guy friend now .. and my ex stil has his gf ( but doesnt think it will last long ) i dont know how "shawn" feels about me though... when we were drinking the other night he kissed me on the cheek a couple times when i was crying ( for reasons that are of no relation to this ) and he really truley cared... ive known him for two yrs, and i met him through my ex... i dont know how to act on this..
please help!! and if you dont understand something.. plz feel free to ask questions

Well what is it your asking?
What to do? Or how to react what?

Its not really a question.. as i just need advise on what i sh0ould do or say or anything like that, you know??
im just really confused about how to handle this now

Well do you have feelings for the guy who kissed you on the cheek?

If you have feelings for this guy (which if I remember correctly you did in your last post) then he should know. If he kissed you on the cheek he hasn't been very loyal to his girlfriend (your bestfriend). That should be something you mention. Drunken words are sober thoughts. Something I have learned to except. Just try talking to him. See how he feels about things.

Do you still love your ex? It all depends on which one you'd rather want to be with. This one guy might not even like you so who knows what's going to happen. Ask your ex that if he's going to break up with his girlfriend soon then would he be back with you. Unless maybe you like the other guy better then I'd ask him if he liked you. You could also wait a little bit to see what happens. Sometimes things have to get worse to get better. Waiting to see what happens could be the best thing. Then from that point on you can decide what you'll do with yourself.

I'm so happy I understand it. ^_^ Or do I?....Dun dun dun!

Just from experience... I would not recommend dating an ex's friend.

How would you feel if one of your friends dated an ex of yours? Honestly, it is not much fun and leaves a bitter taste of betrayel in your mouth.

Remain friends, but nothing more hun. that is my advice.

--Sher

Well obviously ur x has no interest in u no more as he is still dating this other girl from experiance i culd tell u to wait until he dumps his girl for u but thats preety stupid as everyone was telling me to wait and i ended up waiting 3 months now dont take my first advice im warning u if u do u do it at ur own risks

my other advice is to go out with this other guy I think his names shawn or wateva cuz ur x obviously dont care for ur feelings other wise u wuld still be 2gether and if shawn treats u with respect by all means go for it dont let him being the exes best freind stop u

kk cheers hope u feel betta