Taylor needs help

So okay..he told me he told me he liked me alot then the other day it became a little bit and then now..we havent talked for a couple of days..and i dont know what to do.
i need to get him back. i seriously am having trouble living without him. I'm never happy anymore..and i wont let myself get close to any other guy.

guys-what makes you fall for a girl?

girls- what do you do to make the guy fall for you?
and how do you keep him interested?

thanks..=]

Well i think you should talk to him hang out, just be yourself. you need to talk to him tell him how you feel!

Darlin' I hate to tell you this but it is the truth. Your only 14. Don't let guys be your main focus. Don't allow it to be 'I can't live without him' blah blah blah. Truth of the matter is, you CAN. Sure it might be hard. Probably not what you want but you can.
So for now, just talk to him. Tell him how you feel about the situation. If he understands then thats good. If not don't worry about it girl. Just keep on moving with life and there will be another guy out there better than him. You never know. Just talk to him though and see where things go from there.

Yea, you can live with out him. You're only fourteen. You'll understand in a few years that what you're feeling isn't love but infatuation. Love is eternal but infatuation is temporary. Just let what ever happens happen. Go with the flow, you know?

Me? I am utterly perplexed as to why my boyfriend loves me! But that's just getting into my self esteem issues and no one needs to hear that. Anyways...I am myself, there is nothing false about me, I don't try to be anything other than myself. I'm not fake, I'm not one of those prissy girly types who wears ten tons of make up and I don't wear "fashionable" outfits to make myself get noticed. That's just me, though, and that's why I am loved, because I'm not fake and i'm just myself. Just be you, sometimes that's the most attractive thing there is!

You know, it sucks to be told "oh your feelings don't matter, you're only fourteen, etc. etc." I dunno about you guys, but I remember being fourteen, and the thing I hated most was being dismissed because I was fourteen. C'mon, try to help, instead of telling this girl she's only fourteen and it doesn't matter?

^No one said her feelings don't matter. They are just pointing out that as she grows and matures, she will feel stronger feelings towards people.

And honestly, when I was 14, I really wish someone had pointed out that I was not mature enough to really be in love. That would have saved me so much pain at the time, just to hear from other people with experience that things do get better, and that I will be over it in no time.

Taylor- Just like everyone said: be yourself. Don't play games with him, just be whoever you are, and if he doesn't want that, then he isn't worth your time anyways.

'You know, it sucks to be told "oh your feelings don't matter, you're only fourteen, etc. etc." I dunno about you guys, but I remember being fourteen, and the thing I hated most was being dismissed because I was fourteen. C'mon, try to help, instead of telling this girl she's only fourteen and it doesn't matter?'

No one said that to her. Everyones feelings matter. People are just trying to tell her that at age 14 there are so many more things in life more important that your boyfriend or even having one. When I was 14 I would have loved to have had some one tell me that. I never had people to talk to about stuff like that. So when people bring up age it's not because her feelings don't matter. We are trying to help her. We don't want her to feel the heartache that some of us felt.

taylor, follow your heart. Do what you feel is right. Be yourself and if that isn't good enough for him don't even bother with him anymore. Trust me it's not worth it.

Ummm... if you have to 'make' somebody love you, then, sorry to say it, but it aint love sweetie. Just because you fall in love doesn't mean that it's permanent.

^quite true.

sorry for coming off so strong. didn't mean to get so forceful.

... i agree with Brittney (pretty much myself) guys aren't your world.. and last year i was 14 too and i had a guy that broke up with me on val. day, my bday and all the other holidays... guys aren't what makes the world go around for you.. it is family and friends... Family is the most important if you didn't have your family.. where would you be at... liking someone is something that happens everyday... and you will keep liking different people intill you meet the one that will be your world... just don't let that guy be so soon... that was my mistake... i thought that i had a true love.. he love me and i love him... well he didn't really love me like i thought but i love him and still do... so don't let guys be your world.. you have alot to do and believe me... there is someone out there for you even if you don't meet him tomorrow or a week from now he is out there somewhere

I'm sorry sweetie but you can't make a person return your love no matter how much you want them to =p I've had to learn that one the hard way and...if a guy can't see the wonderful person you are and love you that way...than he's not worth your time or the heartache =p

You are 14 sweetie and when your so young you feel everything twice as strong and it's twice as easy to mistake liking for loving =p I'm not saying that at 14 you can't fall in love but there's just so much more out there that you haven't seen or experience...why wast your time worrying about a guy or trying to keep his affection?

To truly fall in love the way you want and have it returned and last it take maturity on both sides sweetie =p Give yourself time and don't try to grow up to fast =p Take it from me on this one sweetie, enjoy being young while your young instead of trying to deal with things that you don't need to at this age =p

Just be yourself though and if thats not what he wants then he's not the right one for you =p The right guy will love you because your the way you are ^_^ I know it hurts right now and I'm not going to tell you that it'll go away but if he doesn't care about you the same than with time the pain does fade =p

Sorry if none of this made sense lols I'm kinda talking to myself as well as you here lols And Truelover, I completely agree with what you said lols

Hope things work out for you sweetie =)
Rhea