Pregnant? help?

Ok Chicky I got your back! I JUST went through this same EXACT THING a week ago, not even a week ago...Well first off, ept pregnancy tests sometimes can tell within the first week or two, I would do two to be safe...First of all Just let her know you're there for her and that you'll love her and supposrt her emotionally, yada yada yada you know...That whatever it takes you got her back...I learne this one...Thanks to everyone on here and giving me info and stuff, and it worked..Thankfully she wasn't pregnant...Just let hre know that she has options, If she is pro-choice, it's up to her, adoption, There are many loving caring people out there dying to have kids that if she could not give it a good life they could give it an excellent one...Or even better if she wants to keep it...Those are just things she'll have to decide....If it comes down to it that she has she has a while to make those chioces, unless she decides to go the pro=choice way...Which well ya know, if you believe in it, EVERYONE is equal to their own choice, is the way that I see it...Although tell her next time USE A CONDOM! lol
Bye,
Hope this helped, you can always email me at, softball_gurl77@hotmail.com
I want to know how it all turns out for you and your friend.
==Ashlee==

Ohh and some early signs, tender nipples....Umm not to sure about the rest...But type it in online. It will igve them to you...

NO ABORTION!!! IT'S MURDER!!!!

you fucks dont tell her not to have an abortion she can do what she wants

it's really her choice whether to get an abortion or not.

she didnt ask if she should get and aborsion she aked what she should do cuz she thinks not knows shes pregant. dont be so harsh, and one test will do. plus the stress of thinkin your pregant could make you late. my thoughts are with you gurls both of you.

wow that stinks my best friend is pregent and she is 15 soo i kno how she feels and i dont really kno what the signs are cuz my friend didnt really kno either my friend is ready tho her parents and friends are with her 100% i wish you friend gr8 luck with it, its gunna be really hard but she'll make it threw :-D

Miss*Sammy

DO NOT LET HER GET AN ABORTION! Abortions are MURDER! at 2 months you can hear a heart beat. Here is my advice, since my best friend went through this with her sister.

Tips for her:

Go to an alternative high school until she has the baby
then give it up for adoption. there are so many parents out there who want babies but too many people are getting abortions. The nice thing about this is that she can actually select who her baby goes to.

Once the baby is born she can get on with her regular life.

Tips for you:
Just let your friend know that u are there
If she ever needs something be there. This is the best advice i can give. If you ever need any more please feel free to e-mail me or talk to me online!

~Fake

Jesus Loves You

cheekybaby, first off dont freaking tell her to get an abortion..i know we all have diff opinions on this but she should have been more careful...you shouldnt punish the baby for her irresponsibilities!! no offense!! there is always adoption, lots of families want babies so it wont be that hard to find her a good home!! it wont screw up her life!! she'll just have to learn to adjust to it.no more partying or what not. she is young but she has to deal with the consequences..well it is really HER choice to do what she wants with HER baby...so let HER decide!!
and once she holds her baby in her arms, she'll know just how precious life can be!!

okay first off...people don't get into an abortion topic on here...she just wanted to know early signs of pregnancy-we don't even know if she is pregnant yet!!!

First of all how can you tell an unready, immature 17 year old girl NOT to have an abortion when you know nothing about her life or her personal situation...?

I am totally prochoice - whether that be choosing to abort or choosing to carry full term.

Tell your friend to see a doctor and find out the facts first. For one because she could be stressing herself out over NOTHING and not even be pregnant (remember just because she didn't use protection doesn't gurantee conception) also the sooner she finds the better and she cant start making some serious decisions about her life and potentially her unborn childs life also...

Let us know if shes actually pregnant or not and we can all discuss this further!

Cheeky baby

Not entirely true - you obviously arent writing from experience as I am I see?

I had my son at 18 - hard yes - but would I take it back or trade him for the world - NEVER

Yes I have struggled but we are on top of things we have a beautiful home and life and my boy has the best of everything

Think about this because either way it changes your life forever

no seriously never have abortion my best friend got pregnant when she was 14 and she was thinking of having an abortion, but i wouldnt let her, shes 18 now and her daughter is 3, turning 4 and her daughter, Briar Rose, is the most beautiful thing, shes lovely - she doesnt no who her father is but tht doesnt matter, it changed my friends life and shes really happy now, so if i were u i wouldnt have an abortion but its up to u

and youre killing a baby wen u have abortion - to me thts wrong

Cheeky baby your right but in the rarest incidents of pregnancy - its actually old age pregnancies (over 35) that are considered high risk...

Im disgusted at how so many of you can tell this girl to bring a baby into the world at her age! Gees so what she can live off a pension and stuggle to make ends meet on a weekly basis, where her child is constantly sick because she cant afford medical bills and the like - there is sooooooo much more to taking care of a child than i think you girls realise - its bloody hard work, the hardedst job ive ever had and its a life time committment, its complete sacifice of your own life and wants and needs and if shes not ready to do that then how can you expect her to ruin not only her life but that potentially of her child...

PRO CHOICE whatever that be - have some sense!

If my parents couldn't feed, clothe and provide for appropriately (which they could)

I would wish for them to have abort me rather than bring me into a life they knew from the beginning they couldn't support...

Inshallah I hope everything works out for your friend whatever her choice