What does he mean ?!?! dont understand !

Okay ..so ive been with my partner for just over a year... and at the start he use to open up and tell me how he felt and stuff but he dont anymore ..and i think it started just after his grandad died... they was very close .. and i was there for him 24/7 .. and his grandad died 8 months ago ... but anyway .. we use to see eachother alot and now its like .. 2 times in 2 weeks.. and i really miss him i said to him today .. i miss not seeing you as much and he just went blah blah blah .. and i said well you might be okay with seein me that much but im not ..and i said i really miss seein you as much and he said ar stop going all soppy and i sed im not .. and he just replyed yh you are... and the subject was dropped cause he had to go .. ive tried tellin him i miss him and stuff ..but its always the same hye just tells me to b quiet ca im bein ' stupid' ...what wrong with him ?.. or ist me ?... ano he loves me ... but i dont get this at all x.. PLEASE HELP!!!!

Well hes the kind of person that would tell me .. hes blatent ..thats why im not going to leave him .. He tells me everyday he loves me ... but he just doesnt open up . when ive asked ..he just says its for ' puffs' && boys shuddnt be soppy like that ..

I agree with breaking up... If he cared, he would at least try to meet your needs.. He's not the only one in the relationship.

*Jayde*

Like everyone else has said...you should end it. If you don't...it's going to drag on and on. Guys will still say "i love you" while waiting for you to break up with them. The try to end the relationship in other ways, like he is doing. But when they are done, they aren't going to just come out and say it. You'd be better off to just break up with him...it would be so much easier on you in the end.

Maybe his Grandpa said something to him when he was alive and after he died he changed and started to do what his grandpa told him. Like you said in the beginning he used to tell you everything but NOW he doesnt say anything at all and he did say men arent suppose to be soppy, correct me if I'm wrong. Just my opinion. Good luck

Mm.. thats tricky.. boys are a disaster sometimes... but... i dunno it seems like he is trying to hide something from, you should just be straight with him.
be like are you hiding something from me?
or something... and if so... figure it out.
if not... dump him :) sorry that sounds mean, but if he is your boyfriend he should tell you whats going on... :) good luck

Well sorry to say hun but it sounds like he has fallin out of love with you or he just got too comfortable in the relationship. i think you should try talkin to him one last time and just let all your feelings out...i hope the best for you. you seem like an intelligent gurl so if he just doesnt wanna listin let go..there are plenty of fish in the sea.

Okay Thank You for all your advice i will sit and have a talk with him properbly .. and if it doesnt work out or he doesnt listen i WILL end it because its just not worth the hurt and all the woundering .. thanks again ..x

Just because things are tough doesn't mean you should call it quits. People give up too much! Pretend you were married, just because you're not getting along doesn't mean to throw it all away. Just ask him what is going on. If he says nothing, that tell him you feel like he doesn't want to be with you, and make sure you empahsis how much he means to you. If he gets asshole like, stay calm, and tell him that if he doesn't want to be together any more, than he should just say, but you still want to be together. I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years, and the first 2-3 were tougher than hell! He fought so much, but now we're amazing! I've never been so happy. Everybody has rough times, just power through!

Thank you... and i hope the two of you work out!! 5 years... gosh..keep it up ! =)