Should I trust him again

I was going out with a guy last year and everything was going fine or at least I thought it was.
On the friday b4 i was going away for the weekend we had a fight and me bein me thought it was my fault and said sorry hoping everything would sort itself out and we could get back to normal when i got back, but it wasnt the day after i got back he got his mate to dump me for him.
I found out after that he cheated on me and dint want me to find out.
we are now going back out and rumours are going around that he is cheating again..... this hurts even more this time becuz i lost my virginity to him and he is saying he isnt but my sorces are good friends

I NEED HELP CAN I TRUST HIM AGAIN OR SHULD I BE WARY AND GET OUT NOW

Lets see, ive never had my boyfriend cheat on me. but i have had many rumors going around about him cheating on me.. he said the girl didnt ever come over, then he finally told me that she did but he would never cheat on me he said

believe what you want to believe. we dont personally know this guy
i mean i think once a cheater always a cheater.
but this could be a different situation.
just question him and if you think he is lying, keep asking him. thats the only thing you can do. but do remember, people hear rumors and then might tell you, where as, he is your boyfriend.

Cheating is lying, only worse. The thing I hate the VERY most is lying. I can stand most anything else but lying, and cheating. If he cheated on you, then there is something wrong there, something caused it, and he's a liar. There is no cheating on someone that "didn't mean anything" or "it just happened". If I were you, I would not trust him, and I would break up with him. You can't regain trust like that.

Omg...any guy that get his mate to dump you for him is a piece of dirt honestly..with no feelings at all. he also cheated on you and if rumours are going around, they are probably true considering he did it before, its prob still going. this isn't a relationship based on truth or anything near that...i dont think hes worth it and personally think you should dump his sorry ass!!...before you are the one that gets your heart ripped apart. please...theres so many better bf's out there for you!!! ... but then again its up to you! good luck xx britt

Hunni if you love the guy that is all that matters at the end of the day its you and him. everyone starts rumors and they are rarely ever true. people just like gossip and drama. so once they see an opening they start to cause it. all you can really do is believe in him and your relationship. yes he cheated before but you have to try and understand why he did before thinking he'll do it agian. so before you make any discussions on what your deffinatley going to do try and get all the facts first. but don't question him constantly cuz thats never good in a relationship. so trust him for now but he does something shady that makes you think he's messing up follow up on it and try and figure out what he is doning without him finding out cuz then he'll feel like you don't trust him at all and no guy likes being in a relationship with a girl that don't trust him. best-of-luck- mel
p.s. if you need any more advice or anything just send me a message

I wouldn't trust him!

No, don't trust him. the first time didn't 'just happen', his boy parts didn't just end up inside of her after some random black out. it was intentional, most likely he'll do it again and if he lied to you about it, it's a 99% chance he'll do it again.

"but it wasnt the day after i got back he got his mate to dump me for him."

^wow redicilous. please do yourself a favour and get rid of him.

Trust is tghe key concepot in a relationship if you cant trust him hes not worth your time

Get out now. -Right- now!

Since your boyfriend dumped you because another girl told him to, he's not worth it, the only girl's words who should stir him in that way should be yours. It may have been a different story if he'd come clean earlier, but you had to find out through different sources. If he had come clean earlier I'd tell you that his words should be the only ones that you trust. So why did you take him back in the first place? You should have moved on & let him regret loosing something that could have been special to him, you deserve better & owe it to yourself to have better than that. Once a cheater always a cheater. It's sad, you'd like to believe people could change, & they can but only if they're serious & committed. You're boy obviously isn't. Those rumors of him cheating have revived themselves. I'd tell you to take no heed to those rumors, they aren't true half the time, but the rumors haven't failed you yet, have they, especially since it was your friends who'd informed you?

Just do what you believe is right for you, not your boyfriend, not people like me who you've asked for advice 'cause we don't know your boyfriend (just keep in mind that you asked for our advice & should expect/accept the obvious truth). Keep asking him for the truth, that's the best thing you can do for the two of you, everything else relies on his faithfulness & your willingness to trusts him.

''The saddest thing in life is loving someone who used to love or doesn't love you.''

Once a cheater always a cheater
get rid of him
wether they are rumours or not, he shudnt of cheated in the first place
he bort it all on himself

Oo I agree, if dey cheat...not really a good idea to trust him again..

Thank u everyone who gave me advice i dumped him 2 days ago and i really cudlnt be happier again thanx alot

No, you shouldn't. Once a cheater always a cheater.