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  • megann anne
    17 years ago

    .posting a thread and then deleting it after you didn't like the feedback is considered spamming...don't do it again...Thank you

  • Fluffy
    17 years ago

    Right. I'm going to have to set you straight.

    "Okay so i have loved this boy forever"

    No, you haven't. You've been alive, what, 15 years? Wow - didn't know 'that' was 'forever'.

    "in my heart at least"

    Yeah, your heart is 15 years old too. Still aint 'forever', is it now?

    "but recently he has gotten into some things.. that i just dont know how to help him. its hard to talk to anyone about it, because no one feels that same about him as i do.. and no one knows how i feel..."

    Ok. How about we take a step back, yeah? You say you have 'loved' this boy. And naively added 'forever'. Then why on earth are you so hesitant to help him or ask a trusted one to help him or help you help him? If you care the slightest bit about this person, you'd talk to them about their problem and support them, rather than sitting on your bum telling randomos over the net that you’re utterly helpless.

    " i love him so much, even if it has to be just as friends. please help me. how can i show him i love him, even if its brother sister love... or what can i do?"

    I don't think I understand what's going on in your head. Or what type of 'love' you have for this boy at least. Just - get up and do something.

    The end.

  • megann anne
    17 years ago

    Nevermind. its just complicated. just forget it all..

  • Fluffy
    17 years ago

    ^You don't love this boy, I didn't think so.

  • megann anne
    17 years ago

    You wouldnt know. you dont even know me.. sorry :S its just not what you think.. i love him more as a brother. and i meant "forever" as in... a while.

  • limp
    17 years ago

    So basically you didn't mean 'forever' at all, quit asking for advice, getting rejected for your ideal 'oh, it's okay, his world revolves around you too' attention seeking trip and then trying to deny you ever really needed help or we don't understand the situation.
    i didn't even read your original post and i know Esham was right.

  • megann anne
    17 years ago

    Okay. im sorry. plus i wasnt asking for that kind of answer anyways. and i appreciate your honest opinion. i honestly just misunderstood. so sorry for your thoughts about "attention seeking trip" didnt mean to. thats not how i am. so im sorry. thanks for that advice anyways :) all of you, you are right and i am wrong. but your advice really did help. so thanks :)