The beginning of the end.

  • Wings Of Flames
    17 years ago

    I don't know what to do about this situation I am in. My boyfriend and I have been dating for not even a week. And although your think oh my gosh what a complainer what do you have to worry about if it's only been a couple of days. but the thing is I've loved him for a year and the reason why he didnt love me was cause of another girl (Jess).

    This girl has come up to him and told him that she loved him ever since a year ago when they first connected, but she also says a lot of things she doesnt mean. My bf has told me this looking me in the eye. That he doesnt know if he meant all the things he said to me (i.e I love you, I miss you, I'm IN love with you) and that he doesnt know if he was only using me to get over Jess...

    I am so broken up and I'm so close to doing things I shouldn't and have been thinking of suicide. Please give me advice.

    :'(

    (please don't post if your gonna say, 'your only young you have your whole life ahead of you', 'get over it' or 'grow up' or something pathetic. I want YOUR HELP!)

  • Tricky Daze
    17 years ago

    Look,if he says 'Maybe I don't love you,I love HER'
    It's just his loss

    And if you're REALLY sure that she says things that she doesn't mean,it means he will cry and beg on his knees for you to come back to him

    And if she is aware and back of what she says,just forget about him,I'm sure you will find someone that deserves you more

    I hope I helped you
    Whenever you want to talk,you can pm me
    Take care

  • Jenna
    17 years ago

    Trust me, killing yourself over a guy isn't worth it, if he really cared for you he would tell you, and if he likes that other girl but finds out later the feelings he did tell you were true and you killed yourself, what would happen then. nothing your dead. and plus, you might think your in love w/ him but i mean, you can find sumone else, i did. i feel head over heels for this guy who hurt me SOOOOOO bad, i thought i loved him...we broke up and i tried killing myself, NOT FUN. when i was rushed outa school on a stretcher, w/ a needle in my arm and ppl staring @ me, my friends crying, and teachers i was close to crying, i REGRETED trying to kill myself. that was about 4-5 months ago, and im SO much happier knowing that i didnt die cause that guy lied and hurt me and if he didn't care about me alive, he wouldnt have cared if i was dead, and then i wouldnt have had the chance to be w/ my b/f now that i love truly love who loves and treats me the way i should be, just enjoy your life, you dont need a man to make you happy, you gotta be happy w/ yourself b4 you can make someone else happpy, you got your family and friends, what would they do if you were gone over a guy? think about that. you'll find someone, someday, you never know, when, or who but you will, you just gotta wait...AND LIVE. hope this helped, take care BABYGURL

  • Rachel
    17 years ago

    If you want our help, your gonna hear it! You're what, 15, lmao, omg. And let me get this straight, you've been together for less than a week, but you've 'loved' -AHEM- liked him for a year...oh my gosh.

    First of all, you're 15, you wouldn't know what being in love is! (With so little experience) At your age your hormones are going crazy and all you want is to have someone for people to see you with. At your age you're going through a crisis stage where you want to get out basically of your childhood, which means in your head, boyfriend.

    SO WHAT he isn't sure he wants to be with you, life goes on. Yes, it hurts but why should you cry about it, be a women, move on! If you want to be a child, than continue whinning, but it won't get any better!

    In like 3-4 years, you'll see how stupid you were getting yourself all worked up by this. It just ain't worth it hun!