What do you think?

If you fell in love once and it ended in a way that there was no going back to the one you love and your heart is still very delicate what do you do?

do you go on act like nothing happened and fall agian and hope it turns out better?

do you block everyone out and not ever love anyone or let anyone close to you ever agian?

do you date a person and when they say i love you say it back event though you don't/won't let yourself mean it and then end up felling bad cuz they love you and you can't love them?

or what?

Tri to figure out what went wrong and if that can get fixed so u don't make the same mistake agian or u fix it b4 it happens
otherwise for now try to not love for awhile (even though thats terrible) until u find sum one u trust won't hurt u
don't ever say anything u don't mean
don't date any one unless u could see u two getting married and being very happy

You go back for more.
Love, it's a crazy thing. and sometimes..well more then sometimes..often, we get hurt. that's the way it's supposed to be. but you always go back for more and open your heart again to someone new..
don't push people away just because you are afraid of getting hurt again. you have to take that chance, otherwise dearie, how will you ever know if they were the right one? and another thing..all those heart breaks, you know, they help for something..they make you realise how much better it is when you actually find the right person. they make you appreciate it that much more.
well this is just my opinion.

--Viola

Well its been two years since i was in love and now im with this guy and i really do like him and i care about him i just don't know if i can love agian? what do you think i should do?

I agree with britt.... you should never say to someone you love them if u dont feel it coz your giving them faluse hopes.. n if u do feel a little for them but not enough to say u love them you just say i care for you but i cant say i love you yet..

look everyone gets hurt hun.... crist ive lost count them en who has hurt me but thats lifes lessons for you.... and you know ive finally found a man who loves me so much an yes it take time to allow yourself to admit it... so just go with a small shield protectin yourseld untill your heart is ready to love this dude... crist just date him anf enjoy time with him dnt push your self if u dont give him ago then youll always wonder..... plus u dnt know what youll be missing out on!!!

plus your only 16 and im 22 and ive only just found a nice lad

I see what your saying....its just so hard....

Ok question for yall well what do you do when a guy says its not the right timing and that he still loves you and wants you back next school year do you continue to wait for him or do you move on because he cant think that he can have you whenever he wants to come back right i dono help me out soon a.s.a.p.

Well you shouldn't let him have that kind of control over you. move on and if your single then give him a shot if not theres pleanty of guys to go around

You can't just fall in love one day then another fall back out, no matter what happened to make you feel like you wish you'd never had fallen in love in the first place. But if you loved that person the way you described you do then wouldn't you still try to make it work out? You probably still care about--love even--that person who you'd fallen for, & that's alright, you can still move on if that is what is best. Someone whose love of their life has passed can still love them--Even in death!--& move on, say, to another person & share their love; past, present & future, with that person. Nothing has to necessarily get better, all the matters is that it doesn't get worse, & you can stop that. And besides it's not like you'll always be alone, or ever will be, in this world. There are plenty of other people out there to meet & love, & receive that love from them in return.

Personally, my belief, is that you should only say, "I love you." to someone if you really mean it; if you really love them, & if you don't love them; or mean it at the time, then don't say it. I've dated 2 guys in my life time (not including my 3rd and present and furthermore future boyfriend), I've never said, "I love you." to any of them (except for present/future boyfriend; my friend, my lover, my soulmate & so much more). My first boyfriend had told me he loved me, & I believe he meant it, but I told him that I couldn't return that gesture in return because we'd just started dating & I was just getting to know him, making a decision such as "love" is more difficult than that. He understood, but unfortunately he cheated on me so I let him go without a second thought. We weren't serious or committed enough for the break-up to actually mean anything because of that. Don't feel bad for not loving someone. Love is hard to find & even harder to give. But don't also shun that love for love can go sour.