Worst Relationship

What was your worst relationship, when and why?

I've personally been lucky with this sort of thing. All my boyfriends were like a typically pre-teen go out, "Will you go out with me?" "Okay." Then dumped them 4 days later. My first and only relationship has been 5 years and going strong, talking about engagement, so I've can say honestly, I haven't had one single bad relationship!

I'd have to say i havnt had such good luck with great relationships..i went out with him for about 3 months and he was really great and then he started hitting me..in the face..with his fist when he wouldnt get his way. he did it about 7 times before i got strong enough to let go...i dont regret it one bit
be nice guys, treat a lady with respect

Omg, I can't believe that! Good for you for not taking it!!

I did for a while until i realized i was so much better than that and no guy should put you through that much pain..ever. the topic worst relationship just kinda jumped out at me and i had to post

I was in a relationship on and off for two years where i fell completly and utterly head over heels. I was so far gone, i never realised how badly he treated me. I thought it was his right to be able to flirt with others in front of me and knock me around. He would dump me and then take me back the next day when he wanted something and i was so in love (i thought it was love) i let him. When i miscarried his baby (i never even knew i was pregnant, my pill failed) i realised just how wrong it all was

I'm happily engaged now to the love of my life. I don't regret what happened, it's made me a lot stronger and made me appreciate real love. I'm happy =)

Last year i was w/ a guy and he was really sweet to me for about 2weeks, then he wanted me to have sex w/ him and i didn't want to he started beating on me, i went to school w/ black eyes and he cut me and popped my wrists outa place tryin to hold me down all the time. he pushed me down stairs and put a knife to my neck threatin' to kill me. i tried getting outa the relationship but he scared me so much i didn't wanna make him angry so i stayed w/ him, after about 5months i got the courage to leave and never looked back. and then my other ex cheated on me w/ a guy and i found out he told me that i could never leave him cause i'd be nothing w/out him and that i'd run back to him, i believed him and overdosed one day @ school after i called and told him it was over...stupid me i know...but now im w/ someone i actually really truly love and who treats me the way i should, we're getting engaged soon and i've never been so happy!! its great when you find that special person who loves you and treats you wit respect.

*GEM* - I am so sorry you went through that! Congradulations on your engagment though to your true love of your life! =D

Babygurl - Um, you're 15 and your getting engaged soon?!

Um ya?

(...omg) So than...how long have you seen this guy who your supposenly suppose to be getting engaged to soon?

3 months, and we've known eachother a lot longer, and we are getting engaged. point?

Lmao, omg. I can't even begin to express how funny this is. I'm sure other people would have better ways of saying how stupid you are, lol.

Teens now a days...what are you going do...

Im glad you think my life is funny and im stupid, honestly, i dont care what you think. my life i do what i want with it...you have DONT know ANYTHING about my life so maybe b4 you make stupid comments like that and judge ppl you don't know you should get to know ppl... and what does this have to do w/ the original post? nothing. its about a worst relationship. not me getting engage @ 15.

Lmao, I know. I just had to say something, lol. Plus, you DID answer my question when I asked you about how long you were together, you could of ignored it, so you carried it on too. But whatever, I've had my laugh, lol.

Good for you...i answered ur question cause im not a rude person until sumones rude to me...whatever.

I never really had one. All my boyfriends were different, I'll give you that, but I liked them all and wouldn't change a thing about them. All n all i'd say they've been pretty good

I was in a relationship with a guy from the weekend before I turned 14 to about a month after I turned 16. At first everything was good. Then a couple of months later things started to go down hill... fast. I found out that he had cheated on me. Well we didn't break up and stayed together trying to make things worse. It seemed like everytime I turned around though he was drinking to the point where he wouldn't remember anything the next day. I got fed up with it and asked him to stop, but of course he didn't and I continued to put up with his sh!t. I had been over at his house one day and I spent the night with him and while I was there some other girl comes over so we leave. I asked him why and he says "she likes me and would be angry if she say me with another girl" I didn't care at that point. I made him take me back to his house and me and that girl talked and apparently they had been 'together' too. So I just ended things there. I was pretty heartbroken at first but realized it was for the best because he was never going to treat me any better.

I was goin out with a lad for about a year and threw that time he had sex with a girl on a train and was gettin off with one of my mates.he really made me worry bout trustin my fiance.but im so much happier now.

You know how some guys only want one thing?

Yeah, well, it sucks when they pledge their love to you, and do the one thing you hate more than anything-lie-and then dump you because you won't give it to them.

But, that's okay, I'm in a wonderful relationship now! I just have a slight inability to trust.

I haven't had one bad relationship too. The one's I had I dumped them. I am in one now and it is perfect so I have not had one bad relationship.

We never hear stories from the abusers. It's always the abusees, but I guess that's for obvious reasons, no one would go around telling stories of beating on their significant others.

I had one bad relationship, I just didn't realise it was bad at the time. My partner constantly cheated and made all these mistakes but I constantly forgave her. I wouldn't call it an abusive relationship but there were times when we hit each other. I believe people always improve on relationships, each one gets better, if we recognised that it was going to be as bad as a previous relationship, it'd be illogical to hang around.

Well i thought my relationship was amazing.. but then he just randomly started to treat me poorly and started to trophy me around... we had been dating for almost 3 years.. we actually just broke up 2 days ago.. he wouldnt even TRY to work things out, he claimed there was way too many things to change about ourselves to even get along anymore.. yet he wants to be best friends.. and we have broken up a few times before and he ALWAYS came back to me.. i told him thats it.. i garentee in a few weeks, he will come back.. whatever. not worth the tears, i think i might have been used towards the end of the relationship.

I was in a relationship that started out with a girlfriend. But after a negative incident (which certainly had nothing to do with me attacking her, raping her, or punching her) we were just friends But then our relationship/friendship ended for good after she tried begging me for money twice.

WHen I notice she wasn't paying me back, I said some nasty things about her not keeping her promises of paying me back. She had the nerve to say I was mean to her in that email I sent to her. But I have every right to be upset. I know if I ever borrowed money from a friend, I'd make it a point to pay him/her back so I won't make myself look like a liar to the friend.

A new female friend has entered my life. I sorta hinted about her in my Miss Right poem and quotes. And I hope the future between me and her looks strong in terms of building our friendship into a serious relationship.

Since I have my bad luck in meeting women and starting a serious friendship with each one I meet. Some of them don't like my living status. Some of them play the guessing game. Some of them don't like the fact I'm not able to drive due to me having cerebral palsy. Heck, a few of them even had the nerve to call my face ugly-looking.

But with this new positive friend in my life, she's the exact opposite of any woman I ever met in my life, including that ex-gf who tried taking advantage of my income life while we were supposedly just friends.

Thankyou for your kind words Rachel =)

I never had a worst relationship i have only been in one and am still in it x

I'm not quite sure if it's the "worst" relationship I've been in or the most "pathetic".

The first guy I dated called me up at home & came knocking on my door or told his friends to call me & see if I was home one day, begging me to come out to see him & hang out with his friends, when earlier that day I'd told him I was leaving for the day. He & his friends called me up & came to my door, harassing me & trying to get me to cancel my plans. (At the time me & the guy had only been dating a week.) They kept saying that if I didn't come that he'd commit suicide... They came back time & time again, more urgent than the last, telling me that he was about to commit suicide, they were trying to convince him not to, trying to stop him, that he'd drank some kind of poison, etc., etc. (which was all nothing but a big load of bull), but still I didn't give in. I knew they were full of it, I could see him standing on the corner a block away waiting to see if they're plan had worked. I ended up dumping him a few days later because of that little stunt (& because he'd cheated on me).

What do you say? "Worst" or "pathetic" relationship?