Competing w/ the EX!

Umm ok..i need your advice on what to do..please?? ok well im with this guy and i found out who his ex was because he told me..shes on his top friends list on myspace(i have him on my page although i am kind of annoyed by myspace lol) anyways, i really dont like the way she talks to him, she leaves comments like :i miss you my love:i love you sooo much:things like that! i dont know if she knows that i am his girlfriend..my bf told me that thats the way she ALWAYS talks to him and that it doesnt mean anything to him..i feel like telling her something or ASKING him to tell her something..i feel so bad because i want to feel like the ONLY one to him..i dunno wat to do or wat to say...i dont know if i explained the situation good enough but i tried! please tell me what u would do in this situation...oooh let me give u an example:My bf is in florida for a week so i wont be able to talk to him until he gets back..i miss him so much so i kindly left him some cute "i miss you" graphics and comments on his pg...well, when i checked today i realized that his ex left EVEN MOREEEEE graphics and comments than me on his pg...i think shes trying to compete with me or something! what the hell?!! lol...HELP PLEASE.

Lol...i kno...i dont like myspace too much...im not competing with her on myspace tho! lol but she has known him longer and so i still dont know the whole story between the two of them...thanks for your opinions tho...i realized that if he keeps acting this way then its time for me to move on! i dont want to waste my time with immaturity..thanks tho..lol...

"i dont want to waste my time with immaturity.."

^smart girl! and you shouldn't.

Well from what he says it doesn't look like he has feelings for her still but if you really don't like it tell him how you really feel about it and ask him to do something about it and don't let her get to you cuz if he really wanted her he would be with her not you...just rember that okay

Aww i luv u guys ur sooo sweet! thankz soo much..i will keep in mind wat u say cuz it is in fact sooo true!

Hunny i no exzactly how you feel my bf ex is txtin him an commenting his myspace...

PM me hunny

Hunny i no exzactly how you feel my bf ex is txtin him an commenting his myspace...

PM me hunny

My pace is more touble then its ever worth

Tell him it bothers you, and then he should fix the problem. Honestly, nothing against him but he probably likes the attention. I don't know too much about myspace, but he can just block her or something can't he? He could at least just talk to her and tell her to cool it a little.

Don't compete with her, and if she's not your friend then I wouldn't even talk to her- let your boyfriend do it.

Stupid myspace. *eyes rolling*

Ha. This situation happened to me not too long ago.

So my boyfriend and I got in a fight and we broke up (something stupid - not getting into it)

We broke up for over a week, and in that time he was talking to an ex-girlfriend of his, which she still had feelings for him.

So me and him get back together, and she still is sending him comments on myspace and calling him.

What I simply did was talk to my boyfriend. In which he explained the entire situation, and how he had no feelings for her, but for me. Which of course I believe (because hes with me! not her)
Well - she got carried away with an IM to him. He wasn't at his computer and she IMed him and she was like "why arent you talking to me? are you too busy f***ing Kori??? hahahahahahaha"

And what's so funny is that I was on the phone with him as he was looking at the IM's, and I immediatly told my boyfriend that that was extremely disrespectful, which he knew, and I told him that I was gonna send her a message on myspace. which he was okay with - if he wasn't okay with it thered be a problem.

I straightened things out. Do what I did. It worked.

1st it is ur bf's fault for accepting all that. if he isnt respecting the fact that u r uncomfortable with this chick callin him all that crap, then u need to ask him if he cares about u. next if this girl doesnt still realize that ur man is taken, then u should confront it to her, remind her that he is taken and not single. girls like that need an a** kickin (if they know some1 is taken and yet try to act all shady) myspace or not, he needs to care about how u feel.
if he says its not a big deal and that she is always like that, ask him y is she on his top?? figure out if this guy is playin with ur mind or not maybe he is likeing the fact she is doin all that, but its bothering u and could effect ur relationship.

she's an EX for a reason, so y is she acting like she is his girl?? u really should speak up. so like dont let this chick come in ur way... u shouldnt ever have to compete!