Hes gone :(

I had a boyfriend of two years and we lived together and just recently he died in a fire and i was there and every night i have nightmares and i cant forget him or what he looked like when he was dying. I love him so so much i just feel so low, :(

The death of a loved one is never easy. WHY? HOW COULD THIS HAPPEN?! Its all a confusing mess in your heart and mind right now, and nothing I can say or do will help or make it better. But know that your loved one will live on in that heart and mind of yours, as long as you choose for him to. Talking to people, professional or not, really does help. Stay as strong as you can and be well.

thanks, it doesnt get any easier, the pain never seems to go away no matter what i say or do :( how did you cope with something like this? xx

Thankyou so much, i feel so close to you because you understand this, Do you have yahoo messenger or aol? I really need to talk about this but i dont feel like i can with anyone else. xx

OMG i could never picture that happening to my boyfriend!!! Your gonna hurt your entire life because your goin to miss him!! Just promise me you dont start thinkin it was your fault and you could have stopped it....You couldnt...Fate is fate no matter what happenes in you life...it happens for a good reason!!! Maybe later on in life youll find someone new...Maybe youll get married and have kids...You never know...Just turn to god and he'll help you threw it !!! -Renea

After I posted a reply here, I noticed that the original message from Rachel was posted over a year ago, so I have edited out what I said. It probably would not be appropriate after this long lapse of time.

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