Im so down

I m in a long distance relationship n when evr i talk to my boyfriend i get angree n feel like im makein his life a livein hell.he go's out with his mates and it really gets on my nerves for no reason,i do trust him but i dnt kno if its cos of my ex or somefink i know he'll never hurt me but when people joke bout him goin out with another girl i just start to think it could be true,n i hate feelin like this.and everytime i do i get anoyed n cry.i just dnt kno wot to do.

Your spelling is a bit off to say the least..but anyways, that's besides the point.

well if you can't handle being in a long distance relationship then don't be in one. I'm not sure what to tell you. You either trust him and know that he's not doing anything behind your back or you break up with him. If it's bothering you that much then that's not good..It might also be a good idea to tell him this and talk to him about it..see if he can comfort you in some way. But honestly the way I see it is you can either find a way to deal with it and not let it bother you, or you break up with him and find someone who's closer to where you live.
good luck! =]

--Viola

Yer sorry i know my spellin is off but i've lived in france 7 years so write better french then english.
thanks for you answer,but the thing is i love him and do trust him but my ex cheated on me loads of times n i trusted him i was 15 when he did it n it really hurt me because he told me he loved me then got off with a girl on a train and one of my mates for 5 months.do you actually know what its like to be in a long distance relationship?we've been together nearly 2 years n for nearly the whole of it we've had to be apart so it gets really hard, and when he's out with his mates i mean i know he's a 20 year old man and he cant stay in all the time but sorry i dont really know where im goin here.i know he's had problems with his ex's befor.you probebly just think im stupid but you cant understand how upset i get.my life has always been bad n i'm so scared im goin to lose him.

Without trust it's not much of a relationship now is it. it's unfair on both you and him if it continues. either you find a way to trust him or else end it.

Hi hi i'm tina and im 16
i was in a long distance relationship
it didnt work
if u really love him tho, you can do it
just hang on tight
cause its like a rollercoaster
ups and downs
so buckle up!
i know how u feel
my fiance is camping with some chicks and a guy friend
they're family friends and have known each other for 13 yrs
but i still get paranoid
im still sick and i have volleyball
so i couldnt go
i still feel nervous
even tho we're getting married 10/06/09
on his 18th b-day
so dont trip
you only feel that way
cause you care
and thats a good thing
-Sunshine Tina (b@b3l!c!0u$)

Thanks for your answer at least one of you understand how i feel.people who say just dump him thanks but if you knew what love is,plus i dont wanna dump my fiance now do i.and as i answerd the first person i know i cant really spell but i explained that i spell better in french then in english.
thank you very much sunshine tina at least someone does understand.

Well i've been in this kind of situation before... long distance relationships can be hard..really hard..and i thought my bf was cheating on me..or something just kept bothering me so i told him how i felt...let him know something is really getting to you and if he really cares then he will understand and make sure you know everything that you need to know..

this probably doesnt help but i tried.good luck.

If you're engaged to the guy you should trust him that's, all i'm going to say.
Sure, it'a hard, but the whole point in love is that you make it work even when it gets hard..that's if you truly love him ofcourse.

"Jumping on someone in such a way makes you seem very mature and sure ready for marriage. "

^ LOL! Angelina, that made me laugh. =]