Boys and Friends don't mix! (2 problems)

#1 Ok so my friend really likes this guy and has for a while, well I dind't like him for a while and well now I kind of do! I don't know why either.. I think it's because I had fun talking to him tonight... I feel so bad but I'm not going to do anything but grrr

And my ex has been really nice to me lately I'm pretty much confused What do I do??

# One of my really good friends went to a movie with my ex and another guy last night. And then she added him to her top friends on facebook. She told me she'd never like him but I'm just really nervouse. I still like him alot and she knows that, but she said that she would never like him. I have an ounce of Jelaousy in me! What do I do?? I would be so hurt if she liked him!

#1

first off see if u can picture ur self w/ this guy forever
or only as a short term crush

and see if next time u talk u still like him
# 2 i see why that would hurt and it seems to me(from the given info) that she may like him but maybe only as afriend

if hes an x then u guys didn't work...end of story right????? or do u both have feelings 4 each other again?

They have a thing they were hanging out last night.. and I was texting her and he was texting me back... he's like Hey this is ethan
and Im like Hi
and then he's like what are you doing..

I am really jealous and she even told me she didn't like him so I'm just going to take things in stride and go w/ the flow from now on

Oh hey
too late to join ? lol
guess what ? the same things happening to me.
my friend says she dont like this guy i like but i think she does.
oh wells what can you do ehh ?
well i think you should just talk to the guy and see how things go.
i mean if she was a true friend and all .. she wouldnt like the guy she knows you like right ? and if you can trust her and all ... then i guess what shes saying will be true ....
but i dont know my opinion .. =]

"What do I do?? I would be so hurt if she liked him!"

^Isn't that a little hypocritical, considering that you like her 'crush'?

You're gonna screw up your friendship if you keep up at this rate. No boy is worth that.