Just a little frustrated... (I need to vent)

  • Gentry
    17 years ago

    Okay here's the thing. I reallllllllly like this guy. I have never felt this way about anyone and I have never liked anyone this much. and he means sooooo much to me. I don't want to throw the word love around too much so I am using like.
    (he doesn't know I like him by the way)
    and some of my friends know who he is and that I like him. (the friends that I trust) but some of them just know that I like somebody they just don't know who. and those people keep telling me to tell him.

    but right now the way things are I just CAN'T tell him. telling him is pretty much out not an option right now.

    we are great friends. I would do anything for him and he for me.

    and one of my friends K is like," well I didn't want to tell my bf that I liked him but I just did it and look at us now." and she keeps telling me to tell him.

    I just get frustrated b/c I'm not stupid. if I couldtell him believe me I would! I would have told him a longgggg time ago. but telling him wouldn't speed things up for us to be together. and it might just slow things down.

    If we are meant to be together then it will happen. it is all in God's plan.

    So people GET OFF MY BACK! You can't see in my heart and see how I feel about him and how much I love him so don't tell me what to do with our relationship! got it?

    okay, I'm done. I feel better now. thanks :)

  • Viola
    17 years ago

    Nice to know but I suppose you're not looking for advice.
    good luck! =]
    --Viola

  • Gentry
    17 years ago

    It's not that I'm not looking for advice. its just don't tell me what K does. You can leave advice if you want.

  • limp
    17 years ago

    Okay no, god isn't gonna shine on your friend and tell him to get with you. it's up to you to tell him or not. things won't just magically spin into perfectness without anything happening. you have to either take action, or stop ranting to yourself, because that'll get you nowhere and you'll hit yourself at a chance not taken. sorry if you don't want people to tell you the obvious, but it is the obvious.

    p.s. don't get offended- this is a public forum.

  • Gentry
    17 years ago

    I know all that. It's just if Icould tell him, I would. And its not a matter of me being shy. believe me I go past that a long time ago. I want to tell him but I can't. There are things in my way. and until they are moved then I can't tell him.

  • TrueLovesVictim
    17 years ago

    Soooo........ why can't u tell him? im just a lil confused