Is it ever TOO much in a relationship?

  • Independent
    17 years ago

    Me and my boyfriend/fiance are together all the time., i mean all the time i barely have time to myself anymore. and if we aren't together we are talking to each other on the phone. do you think that is way to much time together and we should spend less, or it's ok to be like that if we enjoy it?

  • Free Spirit
    17 years ago

    If ur starting to feel that way...... and ur questioning this...... then yea. u want some time to urself. let ur man know u wanna spend some time on other things too. besides just with him. but dont get mean of course.

  • Independent
    17 years ago

    That's what i was thinking but he loves me so much and just wants to be around me that i'm afaid i'll hurt his feelings by saying ya know. i don't want him to think i'm trying to push him away but i need my space to ya know..but thx for the feedback

  • Independent
    17 years ago

    No accually we've been dating for almost a year. and i thought that you know after a while he would make excuses liek you said and he would want his distance too..but instead he actually wants to get an apartment together and everything like that and im just like whoa that's a big step i honestly don't know if he will change soon.

  • Normal is the Watchword
    17 years ago

    Is this your first boyfriend?

  • Free Spirit
    17 years ago

    W/e u gotta do to like enjoy a bit of space.... u really dont gotta stress too much about it. if like u wanna do something, be like im goin out with these friends for this, and like u'll be out. u dont have to be like come with me. try to hint ur r sorta spending time on ur own, and r ok with it.

    but honestly lolz i wish i could see my man like that, i havent seen him in like half a yr!

    =''''(

  • Kelsie
    17 years ago

    I understand completely me and my boyfriend hang out pretty much everyday. i think it is normal to want space. you cant be completely dependant on another being.

  • HisBlueEyedAngel
    17 years ago

    If I were you I would take a day inbetween seeing eachother because if you see eachother 24/7 then he will grow to be you and you will grow to be him. Guys need guy time and Girls need Girl time. It is nice to have a little break and do things were you are not together the full time.....Yes you will miss eachother but there does need to be days were you are not together.

  • lish
    17 years ago

    If you both enjoy it well then why not, its wat you want to do go ahead and enjoy it as much as you can

  • holly
    17 years ago

    Jus mix it up a bit
    like try and see ur mates a bit more
    bcoz if u see ur bf as much as u say u do then ur mates will prob b missin u and will b feelin a bit left out
    frends shud cum first and ur bf shud understand tht and it will stop u getin bored
    it cud b healthy for ur relationship to do this
    like maybe go on holiday with ur mates, even if it aint abroad u can still have fun

  • MischieviousMya
    17 years ago

    Honestly? yeah....seeing each other 24/7 is a bit much. Think about it, I mean sure you want to be with em, but it's almost forcing the relationship. Couples need space. period.