{{{A Break?]]]

Alright so me and my boyfriend would have been together for 4months this friday [aug. 24th] but two nights ago we were talkin about him comin over on tuesday and he was like your gonna be mad @ me and i was like why and he was like i'll just tell you on tuesday and then i was like well you gotta tell me now and he was like its not like i cheated on you or anything i'll just tell you on tuesday and i was like playin around and was like what are you gonna break up wit me and he stayed quiet and i was like domonic..? and he was like, i didnt want to do it over the phone...and i asked him why and he was like "as corny as this might sound its not you its me i mean i have a lot of stuff going on right now stuff that you dont even know about and i just cant have a relationship right now i mean you didnt do anything wrong if anything you were too nice to me but thats impossible and i mean this was my most serious relationship and you have got to be my favorite girl friend i mean i told you from the beginning that i wasnt the relationship type but you tamed me for 4months and thats something special wether you see that or not i mean it means something to me and you know damn well i dont want to hurt you i mean i have been thinkin about this for about a week and i just been torn...i still like you a lot monica and i still wanna spend time with you and call you can everything i just think it would be best for both of us if i did this now and not 5months down the road when your even more into me..." he basically pored his heart out to me and told me that hes still gonna come over on tuesday and everything and he also said that he would be mad if he seen me moved on in a couple months wit some other guy but that he would be scared to ask me back out because he thinks i would reject him after he hurt me like he did...AND theres this guy named manuel that i met a week ago at my friend TaTa'z house on her birthday he is really nice and me and him became pretty cool wit eachother i mean we danced at tata'z quince[salsa] and we both at the time were taken but he told my friend ashley that i was beautiful and that im a nice and cool girl or watever and we were talkin yesterday and i was kinda stressed about domonic and money right now cuz i gotta pay for a lot and im tryna to get a car or w/e and he was jus like i got you meaning that he wants to buy me a car and help me pay for all this stuff which isnt cheap and i dont want him to do that cuz i dont go wit him and i told him that and he said that he would just be doin as a friend would help a friend but that he would get mad if i didnt except it cuz he is only tryna help but he knows that me n domonic broke up and he broke wit his girl the same day [before he knew me and domonic were over] but he knows that i'm not gonna be talkin to someone like that for a while but he doesnt even care he just wants to spend time wit and stuff and i just dont know wat to do about this situation i mean domonic is gonna be mad/sad if i talk to another guy while manuel likes me and wants to talk to me while im heartbroken and i love domonic but this manuel is soo sweet and i dont want to put him down and i guess i like him a lil bit i dont even know if i can see myself wit him! WHAT DO I DO?

Ok after the massive headache from trying to read through the words "wit" "nuff" "cuz" and blah....

Your man broke up with you! You are free to date anyone you want and he cannot do or say a darn thing about it.

Live your life for you and do the things you want to do.. Not for your EX boyfriend! Get out of the past and move on.

Just my thought.

--Sher

But he still wants to come over tuesday aka today and everything and he told me that he is already missing me and having regrets and thoughts of getting back wit me..do i take him back?

Stop worrying so much about you exboyfriend. He broke up with you! It's not fair to you if he dumps you, then gets upset if you date someone else. That's not right. If you like this other guy, then I think you should pursue it.

Forget about your ex, he doesn't deserve you. It's simply not right to dump someone, then still try to hold them down.