Please Help

  • Tricky Daze
    17 years ago

    My ex and I broke up on May...And we were friends with benefits till friday and he was keep saying that he still loves me,blah blah,..
    then I told him not to come over anymore..and he told me that he is no longer my friend

    And he has been talking with my bestie on msn for like a year..just as a friend

    But my bestie said that yesterday they talked about sex and he asked her to come to him and have intercourse
    Today she told it to me

    And I messaged him that he's real liar,a jerk
    But now I regret it because he saw my anger

    So please someone tell me what to do
    I feel sooo angry and taken in

    And I forgot to say,he told me to be loyal-not to have sex-,if I would like to return to him and maybe that he would marry me

  • BrokenREALiTy
    17 years ago

    They're called EX's for a reason . Your mistake was choosing FWB . That's the walkway to drama and disaster if you still feel something . If you guys weren't together, you can't really be mad at him . Guys lie . Get used to it . 'shoulda learned especially with him considering he's not your boy anymore .

    In fact, you should be pissed at your friend r ather than him. Hel-lo ? She's your best friend and he's your EX-boyfriend? Why the heck would she be having a conversation like THAT with him? She's trying to tell you something -- whether the message is good or bad; to her benefit or yours .

    Think about it . Talk to her . But honestly, if they've been talking for a year, and now she sends you that -- did you honestly think there couldn't possibly be something going on ?

    "And I forgot to say,he told me to be loyal-not to have sex-,if I would like to return to him and maybe that he would marry me"

    He tells YOU not to have sex but he's talking about having intercourse with your best friend ? Psh . Hel-lo, do you not see the white flag that's being waved at you right now?

  • Viola
    17 years ago

    Everyone else has pretty much said it.

    "And I forgot to say,he told me to be loyal-not to have sex-,if I would like to return to him and maybe that he would marry me"

    ^sheesh! are you serious? this guy MUST have some problems.
    He's friends with benefits with you and then talks to your best friend about having sexual intercourse. PLAYER! I don't like to catagorize people but seriously, come on.

    Please, do yourself a favour and get rid of him.

  • Lost IN a RIVER of Tears
    17 years ago

    Hey like that one girl said friends with benifits was the main mistake. Why would you do that. I mean right there it shows that they did not care that much about you..All he really wanted was sex.

    Most girls give in to that and whenb they say they still love you. If they still loved you then they would have not have left you. You seem like a wonderful gurl. You seem way to good for this jerk..

    Another way you can tell he does not love you like he said he does is beacuse he is talking to your best friend about sex. Thats not right at all..

    Hes a waste of time. He was never worth it and yes it might hurt alot. But look you have people trying to help you. Dont worry about him..

    Like we always say theres more fish in the sea.. I hope the best of luck to you hun.

    xxASHLEYzz

  • Finalgravedigger
    17 years ago

    Hey whats up anyhow this guy sounds like a jerk who just wants sex, we all make mistakes but just leave him be, your best friend well she should know better and if she wants to do it with him then theres not much you can do, best of luck.