Solution

I think i have a solution. although it might make some people mad, and its really as easy as it sounds. i also think its been said before. if your all depressed and sad and all that. really the solution is simple. you can make yourself happy. surround yourself with depressing stuff cant be good. ie all the names pictures music. if u surround youself like that its bound to rub off, so stop. its hard i kno and it takes time. but if you want to be happy i personally think you have all the control in the world. there are unseen circumstances but still. if u dont want to make and effort to be that way then maybe you are content. and thats ur business. but really if u want something. make it happen

I kno and its sucks. i loved dwelling but then through lots of help and coaching. it does make sense

U make loadsa sense
but wen pple are so called 'depressed' they never want to surround themselves with positive fings, its like they dont want to b happy
so isnt it their own fault
pple complain bout bein depressed but they dont do nefink to change it for themselves, they fink other pple around them shud b the ones to make them feel better
but u cant always rely on other pple to make urself happy

"but u cant always rely on other pple to make urself happy"

^very true..and totally agreed.

"but u cant always rely on other pple to make urself happy'

90% of the time that'll work for about 5 min

Hmmmm good question to the above
pple shudnt have to rely on u to b happy jus to make them happy, its all so silly
depressed pple dont reali want to b happier coz they dont put in any effort to make themselves happy
most of them that are single fink all they need is a bf/gf to make them happy and it aint the case

It is good to have people who can make you happy. but they will not always be there 100% of the time so u have to do it yourself. if u cannot rely on yourself to be happy then who can you rely on?

Hehe i agree

I did some positive thinking and it gradually pulled me out of depression and now I'm not in it anymore!

And now if I use positive thinking;
it'll help me change;
it'll just take awhile!

There is this thing called mental filters. and i dont kno if anyone has heard of them they do cause alot of problems. they way they work is no matter what happens you only see hear and think the bad ones. you can have the most perfect day minus one thing and the whole days sucks. so what u do is notice the filter and stop yourself and try to point out the good things. it takes time alot of time. i have been at it for like two years and i still have problems. but they are so many things that help with this mindset. pm me or ask for more if anyone else wants them or needs any help. im not perfect and not alway happy but as along as i can make myself smile and feel better then everything is ok

"life is what you make of it."

^It took me a really long time to realise that but it's true.