Girlz plz read

I agree, if you do do it that way you'll regret it. Trust me, I got alotta friends that did that and they wish that they could change it, cuz when you find the guy you really like you should give that to him. And it hurts, seriously! your first time should be making love not f*ckin. Just advice from a girl to girl.

hey they're your diseases not mine!

do what makes you happy

if you want to start so young and get called "sl*t and wh*re"; then go into a deep depression because, all the girls and guys think you're easy then go right ahead! You have my permission.

go f*ck some random guys.

Its your life..........

lol...Jacki- you have such a way with words! ;)

I think that you probably feel pressured to do that-but hunny trust me, if you lose your virginity at the age of 13, even to a guy you think you love, it will come back in your face and you will regret it. I would highly recommend telling him that you are not ready and wait a few years. And yes, the 1st time hurts like he**.

you're 13? you guys aren't in love and probably won't last. don't do it. you will regret it.

listen ya 13(n so am i ).n wen he fingerd ya it hurt yah ! bcoz ya tence ur body aint ready for sex yet . , n do u now bout contraseption n stuff . yeah it hut wen i did it coz i didnt wont to . but u might fink u want oto . but u do sound nerviose , so ya sorta aint ready so id leave it . if u do it ya spend da rest of ya life wishin ya spent ya first time difrent trust me . i didnt have choice but u do , soo jsut do wot feels right n fink of concenquences , such as namecalling and pregnacy plz , luv lidxxXxx

You seem like you already know the answer to all your questions so why waste your time and ours by posting this! And it shows that you 13 coz you clearly lack things like maturity!!!

I agree with Alan.. just the fact that you asked totally strangers about f*cking your boyfriend probably means you're not ready... If you wanted to do it, you would have done it already.

well its ur life in the end, u ve got all the advice n well its up to u to make the right decision which u probably hopefully know...n ya 13 years love i duno if it'll last. n besides once u lost ull regret n if not ull probably be so obbsssessed with that boy afraid of loosing him afraid of being labeled n stuff.
well, thats my view n what i 'v seen with ppl round me.

y the hell does it have to hurt like hell 4 us! ill make it even (the pain i mean) pucch him back mmmm maybe not lol just thinking

yeah i agree with what everyone is saying. wait a few years atleast! i mean cmon, it is sad when u see someone 13 having sex... ur not ready yet. if u ask the question "is it gonna hurt" then u have no clue about sex. dunt do something that u no little about. when u do it, be an expert ;-) and then ull have something to remember about when u look back on it. but dunt do it at 13.. jus wait

I don't agree with the people who are saying she is not mature because she asked us. Isn't that sort of sensible? She just wanted advice and infomation from people who are older than her. She was brave enough to ask us and face all your taunts.People who call her a whore and a slut just don't understand what its like to be 13 and in love for the first time.

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ya you know up there^sumwhere I sed don't do it, but who am I to talk? I did it when I was 12 and shit, well I was a month and a half away from being 13, but I thought i was in love too. Really I was, but now when I look back I regret it. Girl, if you want to do it, do it, but just think alot about it first. If it feels right it does if not don't do it. And do what Some Girl said, take a towel!

ok...i was 17 my first time and i regret it to this day....13 is even worse. I promise yo that it wont last. Do want you wanna do....don't live to make anyone else happy. I only warn you to be fully prepared for all that will follow. The rumors will fily the talking will start and before you know it everyone will be talking about it. You're still young and you have the rest of your life to experience things like this. Take it from someone who knows what you are thinking. My sister got pregnant when she was 14 years old. She was in love and she wanted to prove it to him by having sex. GUESS WHAT?!?! it didn't last. She's 22 years old now and she hasn't spoken to the babys father in almost 7 years. Don't waste something so special on some high school guy. It's not worth it. I'm not saying that you will get pregnant or that you will get a disease...i'm just simply saying that you will regret it....and TRUST ME....YOU WILL REGRET IT!

~*~Christina~*~

no offence but if you really do want to f*ck and you "love" him why do it at a party? and you said it hurt when he fingered you... and you want to know what hurts more well heres how you can tell... is his d*ck biger than his finger? if it is it iwll hurt more than figering but if its the oppisete than it wont hurt.. and tell your friend she must have f*cked a guy with a pretty small d*ck if fingering hurt more lol