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Me and my boyfriend are kinda on a break and he told me that he isnt gonna date anyone or talk to any females other then me and wat not and he said that he wouldnt want to see me wit any niggas or w.e but that he cant tell me wat to do and i just asked him if he wanted me to wait for him to get his stuff straight [cuz thats why we broke up in the first place] and he said he cant tell me wat to do and that he doesnt know i would have to be waiting and everything but if im willing to then..yea...so my questions for you are

*Does it sound like we are ever going to be together again?
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*How long is too long to wait?

...I would really appreciate your help...thankz...

If he wanted to be with you, then he WOULD be with you. Don't wait for him at all; he isn't worth your time.

First off, that`s a very degrading word. I hate it, as many others do.

I have to agree with the person above me though, he may need to get some stuff straight but if so; it shouldn`t take that long...if it takes more than three days, move on.

Im sorta in the same place you are but for diff reasons... but anyways if you love him and you want to be with him then yea wait for him.... it might be hard but in the end it might be worth it... but you dont have to follow my advice...

OMG!! I am totally aloof on this subject

Ok i think you should wait at least a month talk to guys all you want he respects that e cant control you just dont date them

Agreed with Jaime.

***Update***
Alright so its been almost two weeks and he still treats me like his girl i mean he even surprised me at my work so he could take me out to dinner i mean he took me to the movies {which he never takes girls to the movies} and then he just comes over to my house i mean he has been over everyday that he didnt work and thats exactly what we did when we were together...so what does this mean?

I think instead of trying to second guess him,why don`t you just ask him whats going on? did the two of you comunicate before? I just believe in laying the cards on the table. then accept what he says.

Of course we communicate i mean we talked about this a lot and he tells me that he wants to be wit me but he cant right now and that he cant do the whole relationship thing right now...but that he sees himself with again later...but he said that he doesnt know when or how long i would be waiting if i were to wait for him.He also says that i have a place in his heart and i always will and that i am his favorite girl friend and this was his most serious relationship and that he misses me already and he feels stupid for letting me go but it was something that he had to do...so what does THAT mean?

If he feels stupid for letting you go, then he would take you back! Pretty much every post you've gotten has said to forget about him. He's using you; just accept it and move on. Take care.

But if he is using me then wat is he using me for i mean we dont have sex or anything he says he jus likes spending time wit me i mean i dont buy him anything he usually buys me the food and he pays for the movies so yea what is he using me for?

WOW you guys are funny but can i just put my two words in from a guys point of view...?

* He cares about you i mean he has to because he is coming to see you all the time and you just said its not for sex right so he has to be coming to see you just for you! I wouldnt go to see a girl if i didnt care about her unless all i wanted was sex or money but im not that kindof guy anyways. i just think that waiting is your choice it seems to me that he wants you to wait but he doesnt want to ask you to because maybe he just isnt the type to be with a girl the way he is with you but he doesnt want to lose you and thats a fact he wants you to be in his life as a girlfriend or not. We cant tell you what to do Monica this is your life you cant take my advice or just forget i even said anything but i think you should tell him how you feel and let him know that you will wait but not forever.