I want to get this out....

I found out i was pregnant a week away from my 8th grade gradution... well my school started back up again and i am still pregnant.. i do everything a normal kid does just not P.E.... i found out i'm having a boy... but the father of the baby left me and decided to go for a girl he just meet and he says she is everything to him.. well some of my friends are his new gf's friends and she doesn't know that he is going to have a son.. i don't want to break them up but i do believe she should know... i don't see her at all i live in a different town and go to a different school now... but i was going to have my friends tell her about me and the baby but they don't want to get her mad... am i being selfish about him moving on or do you think she has a right to know about him going to have a child...

He'll never be a man if he can't at least awknowlege he has a child. He'll just always be a little boy who walked out on his son.

My mom knows my dad doesn't because i dont' talk to him but his mother knows and so does his father... they want him to get back together with me and they wont let him have anything to do with his new gf... but it happened the same way with me... but that just makes him want her more... and i would but i don't even know her name.. he wont answer my calls and i have no way to get her phone number... and my friends just don't want to lose a friend... and i was on the depo shot when i got pregnant

I think she should know. maybe she'll talk some since in your ex and he might come back to help u out

There are a lot of teenage fathers out there, most new girlfriends are not going to care about that, you have way more important things to worry about than her,you are both so young hes probably going to move on anyway, worry about your baby and your education and your future, good luck with the little guy.The bf is the one missing out!

You shouldn't of had sex so young! But, congrads on the baby, he will become your whole life. You should make sure she knows! But you should tell her! Whether it's over the phone, in person, or by an e-mail/letter. She needs to know what type of guy he is. I hope you do some legal things to make sure he helps support him! You can not do this on your own. I hope you're prepared for this, cause you're going to need a lot of support and help!

Have you thought of any names?

This other girl has a right to know what's going on. I know that if i was going out with someone and all of a sudden an ex girlfriend came out of the wood work waving a baby around, i would be heartbroken and very upset.
You have to remember, this other girl is innocent in all of this. It's not her fault she got mixed up in all of this so you should be very tactful in telling her. You need to do it yourself or get the ex to, having a third party get involved is a no no.
Try get her details off your ex's parents, from what you've said, they seem to be trying to help you out.
I agree with Bob that the birth certificate is a good thing and he will have to step up to this.
I wish you the best of luck with your new baby, he'll make everything worth it. Trust me on that one.
Good luck
*Gem*

If she knows or doesn't know you are still going to have a child honey, if i was you i would not worry about her or him for that matter. what you should be focusing on now is YOURSELF AND YOUR BABY and how to keep yourself healthy for the sake of the baby. even though he donesn't want to take any part in the baby's life then that's him. he will regret it later on down the road when he sees a baby or hears their cries. even if he don't just remember that a child is a gift from God no matter how they come into this world they all should be loved.

Does he not understand?

h e i s g o i n g t o h a v e a s o n .

being in that child's life is NOT an option.
or at least, it shouldn't be.

Its not about you anymore. You have to do whats best for your son.
You want him to grow up to be happy and there is only one way to do that.

Its his responsability too. Half of him is in there and that half of him will always be. that dude needs to accept resonsibility. A kid needs his Dad and his Mum. He needs the security of family. deny that and it will back fire on you later.

Tell that guy that its half of himself that he is rejecting. it is part of him.
Its part of you too but you gotta love both halves.
He has to love his son. And the son has to love his DAD